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#One shouldn't buy important items such as furniture or appliances during the [[nine days]] since it brings a person a lot of pleasure.<ref>Guidelines of the [[Three Weeks]] by Rabbi Elozor Barclay (p. 47) citing Igrot Moshe 3:80 and MeBeyt Levi p. 8 n. 4</ref> | #One shouldn't buy important items such as furniture or appliances during the [[nine days]] since it brings a person a lot of pleasure.<ref>Guidelines of the [[Three Weeks]] by Rabbi Elozor Barclay (p. 47) citing Igrot Moshe 3:80 and MeBeyt Levi p. 8 n. 4</ref> | ||
#Some Ashkenazim have the practice not to give gifts during the nine days unless there is a need<ref>Nitai Gavriel Ben Hametzarim 1:18:4</ref> but for a mitzvah such as for a bar mitzvah boy it is permitted.<ref>Nitai Gavriel Ben Hametzarim 1:18:6</ref> | #Some Ashkenazim have the practice not to give gifts during the nine days unless there is a need<ref>Nitai Gavriel Ben Hametzarim 1:18:4</ref> but for a mitzvah such as for a bar mitzvah boy it is permitted.<ref>Nitai Gavriel Ben Hametzarim 1:18:6</ref> | ||
#It is permitted to buy new sefarim during the nine days since we don't make a shehechiyanu upon new sefarim and also it is necessary for a mitzvah.<ref>Halichot Emet 13:16 quoting Shalmei Moed</ref> | |||
==Taking Haircuts and Shaving== | ==Taking Haircuts and Shaving== | ||
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===Shabbat Chazon=== | ===Shabbat Chazon=== | ||
====Meat on Erev Shabbat Chazon==== | |||
#A person shouldn't taste the Shabbos meat dishes before Shabbat on Erev Shabbat Chazon. He can taste it to see if it needs more spices and then spit it out.<Ref>Laws of Daily Living The Three Weeks p. 63</ref> | |||
#If one accepts early Shabbat on Shabbat Chazon one can eat meat and drink wine even before sunset.<Ref>Laws of Daily Living The Three Weeks p. 63</ref> | |||
#Children can eat meat on Erev Shabbat Chazon as part of their "Shabbat meal" even if it is before Shabbat if it is difficult for them to stay up.<Ref>Laws of Daily Living The Three Weeks p. 63</ref> | |||
{{Clothing for Shabbat Chazon}} | {{Clothing for Shabbat Chazon}} | ||
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===Undergarments=== | ===Undergarments=== | ||
# | #Many poskim hold that it is permitted to wear freshly laundered undergarments which are designed to absorb sweat such as undershirts and socks during the nine days.<ref>Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach (Halichot Shlomo 14:12), Rav Efraim Greenblatt (Rivevot Efraim 3:340), Rav Shmuel Kamenetsky (Kovetz Halachot 11:23), and Rav Ovadia Yosef ([http://halachayomit.co.il/EnglishDisplayRead.asp?readID=2087 Rav Ovadia Yosef on halachayomit.co.il] quoting Chazon Ovadia pg. 229). Rav Ovadia holds that it is better if possible to prepare non-laundered clothing from before.</ref> Others are strict.<ref>[http://www.dailyhalacha.com/displayRead.asp?readID=3319 Rabbi Eli Mansour] in the name of the Ben Ish Chai, Chacham Bentzion Abba Shaul (Or Letzion 3, p. 248) and the English Yalkut Yosef (pg. 207). Dirshu 551:40 quotes Minchat Yitzchak 10:44 who is also strict.</ref> According to this strict view, there is a dispute if it is permitted to throw the freshly laundered undergarments on the floor so that they get a little dirty before wearing them.<ref>Dirshu 551:40 quotes Rav Nissim Karelitz as permitting this and Rav Chaim Kanievsky and Or Letzion forbidding it.</ref> | ||
#Many poskim permit even laundering undergarments during the nine days if they are very dirty and he doesn't have others to wear.<ref>Dirshu 551:40 quoting Or Letzion 3:27:1. Similarly, Shoneh Halachot (Torat Hamoadim 551 fnt. 62 p. 135) quotes that Rav Chaim Kanievsky allowed laundering undergarments that were so sweaty that they couldn't be worn otherwise. Rav Shlomo Miller (Shoshanat Yisrael 4:25) allowed laundering undergarments during the nine days if he doesn't have enough. It is preferable to launder it with just water. However, Rav Tukachinsky (Halichot Ben Hametzarim p. 46 5:51) disagreed.</ref> | |||
===Doing it for Afterwards, Asking a Non-Jew=== | ===Doing it for Afterwards, Asking a Non-Jew=== | ||
#One shouldn't do laundry even if he doesn't plan on wearing the clothes until afterwards, as this distracts him from his [[mourning]]. He also should not give it to a non-Jew to do for him.<ref>Shulchan Aruch and Rama Orach Chaim 551:3 and Mishna Brurah 551:34. [http://www.yutorah.org/lectures/lecture.cfm/746977/Rabbi_Aryeh_Lebowitz/Ten_Minute_Halacha_-_Laundry_During_the_Nine_Days Rabbi Aryeh Lebowitz] at about 9:45 also says allowing a non-jewish housekeeper to do your laundry is prohibited even though this doesn't really distract you from [[mourning]]. </ref> Some poskim permit giving a non-Jew your clothing to launder if you specify that they do it after Tisha B'av.<ref>Mishna Brurah 551:34 citing the Eliya Rabba who argues with the Rama. The Eliya Rabba compares it to Chol Hamoed where this is permitted ( | #One shouldn't do laundry even if he doesn't plan on wearing the clothes until afterwards, as this distracts him from his [[mourning]]. He also should not give it to a non-Jew to do for him.<ref>Shulchan Aruch and Rama Orach Chaim 551:3 and Mishna Brurah 551:34. [http://www.yutorah.org/lectures/lecture.cfm/746977/Rabbi_Aryeh_Lebowitz/Ten_Minute_Halacha_-_Laundry_During_the_Nine_Days Rabbi Aryeh Lebowitz] at about 9:45 also says allowing a non-jewish housekeeper to do your laundry is prohibited even though this doesn't really distract you from [[mourning]]. </ref> Some poskim permit giving a non-Jew your clothing to launder if you specify that they do it after Tisha B'av.<ref>Mishna Brurah 551:34 citing the Eliya Rabba who argues with the Rama. The Eliya Rabba compares it to Chol Hamoed where this is permitted (Shulchan Aruch 543:3). Rabbi Eider (Halachos Of The Three Weeks p. 8) is strict.</ref> | ||
===For Non-Jews=== | ===For Non-Jews=== | ||
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===Cooked with Meat or Meat Equipment=== | ===Cooked with Meat or Meat Equipment=== | ||
#One should refrain from eating food cooked with meat.<ref>Although Shulchan Aruch O.C. 551:10 says that some allow you to eat foods cooked with meat, Mishna Brura 551:63 and Kaf Hachaim 551:142 say that the custom is to refrain from doing so. Ish Matzliach footnotes to Mishna Brura 551:10:note 4 agrees.</ref> Nevertheless, one is permitted to eat food that was cooked in meat pots, as long as no meat was cooked with it, and one cannot taste the taste of the meat in his food. <ref>Mishna Brurah 551:63, Kaf Hachayim 551:142, Orchot Chaim 31, Nitei Gavriel 38:5. Shaar Hatziyun 551:68 writes that even if a small piece of meat that will not be tasted fell into a dish, it may still be eaten. </ref> | #One should refrain from eating food cooked with meat.<ref>Although Shulchan Aruch O.C. 551:10 says that some allow you to eat foods cooked with meat, Mishna Brura 551:63 and Kaf Hachaim 551:142 say that the custom is to refrain from doing so. Ish Matzliach footnotes to Mishna Brura 551:10:note 4 agrees.</ref> Nevertheless, one is permitted to eat food that was cooked in meat pots, as long as no meat was cooked with it, and one cannot taste the taste of the meat in his food. <ref>Mishna Brurah 551:63, Kaf Hachayim 551:142, Orchot Chaim 31, Nitei Gavriel 38:5. Shaar Hatziyun 551:68 writes that even if a small piece of meat that will not be tasted fell into a dish, it may still be eaten. </ref> | ||
# Parve food which looks like meat may be eaten during the Nine Days. <ref>Nitei Gavriel 38:6, Rav Mordechai Eliyahu (Maamar Mordechai - Lemoadim Uleyamim 25:37 and [https://www.yeshiva.co/midrash/3808 yeshiva.co]) </ref> | # Parve food which looks like meat may be eaten during the Nine Days.<ref>Nitei Gavriel 38:6, Rav Mordechai Eliyahu (Maamar Mordechai - Lemoadim Uleyamim 25:37 and [https://www.yeshiva.co/midrash/3808 yeshiva.co]) </ref> | ||
===Cooking with Wine or Meat Flavor=== | |||
# If wine is mixed into a sauce it is nullified one in six parts, therefore if there is less than 16% it is permitted to consume during the nine days.<Ref>[https://www.torahanytime.com/#/lectures?v=155681 Rav Shmuel Fuerst (Halachos of The 3 Weeks 5781, min 28)]</ref> | |||
#If meat fell into a food and is nullified one in sixty the food may be consumed during the nine days.<Ref>Mishna Brurah 551:63</ref> | |||
===Liquors=== | ===Liquors=== | ||
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===Grape Juice=== | ===Grape Juice=== | ||
# The practice is to avoid drinking grape juice | # The practice is to avoid drinking grape juice during the nine days.<ref> Ohr Letzion 3:26:8, Chazon Ovadia - Arba Taaniyot pg. 176. See Shu”t Minchas Shlomo (vol. 1, 64), Shu”t Rivevos Efraim (vol. 8, 177), Moadei Yeshurun (pg. 130) and Mesores Moshe (vol. 1, pg. 174 s.v. mitz) quoting Rav Moshe Feinstein. See also [http://hirhurim.blogspot.com/2009/08/grape-juice-during-nine-days.html Grape Juice during nine days ] by Rabbi Gil Student.</ref> | ||
===Accidentally Made a Bracha on Meat or Wine=== | ===Accidentally Made a Bracha on Meat or Wine=== | ||
#If, by mistake, one recited a blessing over meat or wine, he should taste a bit so that his blessing will not have been in vain. <ref>Sdei Chemed (Bein ha-Metzarim 1:4), Yabea Omer 2: YD 5. See also the topic of mistakenly making a Bracha on food on a fast day at [[Fast_Days#Other_Halachas_of_fast_days]]. </ref> | #If, by mistake, one recited a blessing over meat or wine, he should taste a bit so that his blessing will not have been in vain.<ref>Sdei Chemed (Bein ha-Metzarim 1:4), Yabea Omer 2: YD 5. See also the topic of mistakenly making a Bracha on food on a fast day at [[Fast_Days#Other_Halachas_of_fast_days]]. </ref> | ||
===Tasting on Erev Shabbat=== | ===Tasting on Erev Shabbat=== | ||
#One may taste the meat food on [[Erev Shabbat]] during the [[nine days]] but should try not to swallow any meat ingredients. <ref>Shemirat Shabbat Kihilchita 42:61 since the Magen Avraham 250:1 quotes the Arizal that this is part of the mitzva of [[kavod shabbat]] to taste the food to make sure it tastes good. </ref> | #One may taste the meat food on [[Erev Shabbat]] during the [[nine days]] but should try not to swallow any meat ingredients.<ref>Shemirat Shabbat Kihilchita 42:61 since the Magen Avraham 250:1 quotes the Arizal that this is part of the mitzva of [[kavod shabbat]] to taste the food to make sure it tastes good. </ref> | ||
===Shabbat and Leftovers=== | ===Shabbat and Leftovers=== | ||
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#One should not refrain from eating meat on Shabbat during the nine days, or even if Tisha B'av falls out on Shabbat and is pushed off until Sunday, one should eat meat on that Shabbat.<ref>Mishna Brura 551:59 </ref> | #One should not refrain from eating meat on Shabbat during the nine days, or even if Tisha B'av falls out on Shabbat and is pushed off until Sunday, one should eat meat on that Shabbat.<ref>Mishna Brura 551:59 </ref> | ||
#Some poskim allow eating meat leftovers on motzaei [[shabbat]] even during the [[nine days]] while some poskim say that it's prohibited. <ref>Shaare Teshuva 551:11 quotes the Birkei Yosef allowing one to eat leftover meat for melave malka but concludes himself that this is not the custom. See [http://www.dailyhalacha.com/m/halacha.aspx?id=950 Rabbi Mansour on Dailyhalacha.com] who quotes Rav Chayim Palachi in moed likol chai who says it is permissible and Chacham Bentzion Abba Shaul who says it is definitely preferable not to, especially if that is not that person's usual practice. Chelkat Yaakov 3:21 and Iggerot Moshe OC 4:21:4 both forbid it even for somebody who would usually eat it. [http://www.torah.org/advanced/weekly-halacha/5762/devarim.html Rabbi Daniel Neustadt on Torah.org] agrees. </ref> | #Some poskim allow eating meat leftovers on motzaei [[shabbat]] even during the [[nine days]] while some poskim say that it's prohibited. <ref>Shaare Teshuva 551:11 quotes the Birkei Yosef allowing one to eat leftover meat for melave malka but concludes himself that this is not the custom. See [http://www.dailyhalacha.com/m/halacha.aspx?id=950 Rabbi Mansour on Dailyhalacha.com] who quotes Rav Chayim Palachi in moed likol chai who says it is permissible and Chacham Bentzion Abba Shaul who says it is definitely preferable not to, especially if that is not that person's usual practice. Chelkat Yaakov 3:21 and Iggerot Moshe OC 4:21:4 both forbid it even for somebody who would usually eat it. [http://www.torah.org/advanced/weekly-halacha/5762/devarim.html Rabbi Daniel Neustadt on Torah.org] agrees. </ref> | ||
#Some say that there is what to rely on to have meat leftovers from [[Shabbat]] during the [[nine days]], while others forbid. <ref>Chazon Ovadyah (Arba Taniyot pg 177) writes that there is what to rely on, as does the Torat Moadim 5:46. Birkei Yosef 551:6 says that in order to encourage proper for fulfillment of the meal itself we allow the leftovers to be eaten later. However, the [http://www.torah.org/advanced/weekly-halacha/5762/devarim.html Weekly Halacha by Rabbi Neustadt] quotes Sh"t Igrot Moshe 4:21(4) who forbids (see there). Aruch Hashulchan 551:24 also forbids it, also see Piskei Teshuvot 551:34. Kaf Hachayim 551:144 says that for melave malka one is permitted to eat meat leftovers as long as he doesn't prepare extra for [[shabbat]] with the intention of having leftovers. [http://www.dailyhalacha.com/displayRead.asp?readID=950 Rabbi Eli Mansour] quotes that Rav Chaim Palachi allows this while Chacham Benzion Abba Shaul says it's better not to. Rabbi Mansour also says that for the remainder of the week kids can eat it lechatchila and if adults eat it one cannot rebuke them. Piskei Teshuvot 551:34 says there are some poskim who permit eating meat for melave malka for someone who usually eats meat for [[melave malka]]. </ref> | #Some say that there is what to rely on to have meat leftovers from [[Shabbat]] during the [[nine days]], while others forbid.<ref>Chazon Ovadyah (Arba Taniyot pg 177) writes that there is what to rely on, as does the Torat Moadim 5:46. Birkei Yosef 551:6 says that in order to encourage proper for fulfillment of the meal itself we allow the leftovers to be eaten later. However, the [http://www.torah.org/advanced/weekly-halacha/5762/devarim.html Weekly Halacha by Rabbi Neustadt] quotes Sh"t Igrot Moshe 4:21(4) who forbids (see there). Aruch Hashulchan 551:24 also forbids it, also see Piskei Teshuvot 551:34. Kaf Hachayim 551:144 says that for melave malka one is permitted to eat meat leftovers as long as he doesn't prepare extra for [[shabbat]] with the intention of having leftovers. [http://www.dailyhalacha.com/displayRead.asp?readID=950 Rabbi Eli Mansour] quotes that Rav Chaim Palachi allows this while Chacham Benzion Abba Shaul says it's better not to. Rabbi Mansour also says that for the remainder of the week kids can eat it lechatchila and if adults eat it one cannot rebuke them. Piskei Teshuvot 551:34 says there are some poskim who permit eating meat for melave malka for someone who usually eats meat for [[melave malka]]. </ref> | ||
===Havdalah=== | ===Havdalah=== | ||
#Since the minhag is not to drink wine, a question arises as to what we should do with [[Havdalah]]. For Sephardim one is permitted to use wine and drink it as usual <ref>Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 551:10. Yalkut Yosef page 574 adds that one may drink the entire cup. </ref> while for Ashkenazim there are several possibilities. <ref>The Aruch HaShulchan 551:26 says some people have the Minhag to drink beer or another drink that qualifies as Chamar Medina. The Eshel Avraham 551 and the Chazon Ish (quoted in Imrei Yosher, pg. 4) says that those who say [[Havdalah]] every week over wine or grape juice should do the same during the Nine Days as well. Rav Moshe Harari in his Mikraei Kodesh 1:14 say it is preferable to use grape juice as this doesn't cause any joy, and Rav Moshe Karp in Hilchot UMinhagei Ben HaMetsarim chapter 4 note 74 says that in this situation an adult can drink it lechatchila. Rama Orach Chaim 551:10 says to preferably give it to a child. Mishna Brurah 551:70 says that it should be a minor above the age of [[chinuch]] but doesn't fully comprehend the concept of [[mourning]] the destruction of the beit hamikdash. Rav Moshe Feinstein quoted in Moadei Yeshurun page 154 says the adults should drink the [[Havdalah]] wine. Darkei Moshe 551:9 says in the name of the Maharil that this can be done lechatchila. See piskei teshuvot 551:35 and Hilchot UMinhagei Ben HaMetsarim chapter 4 note 74 for more poskim who say this. </ref> | #Since the minhag is not to drink wine, a question arises as to what we should do with [[Havdalah]]. For Sephardim, one is permitted to use wine and drink it as usual,<ref>Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 551:10. Yalkut Yosef page 574 adds that one may drink the entire cup. </ref> while for Ashkenazim there are several possibilities. Some poskim hold that they should use grape juice, while others hold that they should use wine. Everyone agrees that the cup need to be drunk. Some prefer giving it to a child who reached chinuch but doesn't fully understanding mourning the bet hamikdash, while others hold that it should be given to an adult.<ref>The Aruch HaShulchan 551:26 says some people have the Minhag to drink beer or another drink that qualifies as Chamar Medina. The Eshel Avraham 551 and the Chazon Ish (quoted in Imrei Yosher, pg. 4) says that those who say [[Havdalah]] every week over wine or grape juice should do the same during the Nine Days as well. [https://www.torahanytime.com/#/lectures?a=155681 Rav Shmuel Fuerst (Three Weeks and Nine Days, min. 26)] ruled to use wine as usual like Rav Moshe Feinstein and Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach. Rav Moshe Harari in his Mikraei Kodesh 1:14 say it is preferable to use grape juice as this doesn't cause any joy, and Rav Moshe Karp in Hilchot UMinhagei Ben HaMetsarim chapter 4 note 74 says that in this situation an adult can drink it lechatchila. Rama Orach Chaim 551:10 says to preferably give it to a child. Mishna Brurah 551:70 says that it should be a minor above the age of [[chinuch]] but doesn't fully comprehend the concept of [[mourning]] the destruction of the beit hamikdash. Rav Moshe Feinstein quoted in Moadei Yeshurun page 154 says the adults should drink the [[Havdalah]] wine. Darkei Moshe 551:9 says in the name of the Maharil that this can be done lechatchila. See piskei teshuvot 551:35 and Hilchot UMinhagei Ben HaMetsarim chapter 4 note 74 for more poskim who say this. </ref> | ||
===Birkat Hamazon over Wine=== | ===Birkat Hamazon over Wine=== | ||
#Even somebody who normally uses a cup of wine for [[Birkat HaMazon]], should not during the [[nine days]] except for on [[Shabbat]]. <ref>Rama Orach Chaim 551:10 with Mishna Brurah 551:69, Kaf Hachayim 551:152, Ohr Letzion 3:26:8 </ref> | #Even somebody who normally uses a cup of wine for [[Birkat HaMazon]], should not during the [[nine days]] except for on [[Shabbat]].<ref>Rama Orach Chaim 551:10 with Mishna Brurah 551:69, Kaf Hachayim 551:152, Ohr Letzion 3:26:8 </ref> | ||
===Stores or Restaurants Selling Meat or Wine=== | ===Stores or Restaurants Selling Meat or Wine=== | ||
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* [https://www.yutorah.org/lectures/lecture.cfm/890440/rabbi-hershel-schachter/are-children-obligated-in-observances-that-commemorate-the-destruction-of-the-beis-hamikdash-/ Rav Hershel Schachter] explains that although normally a child is not obligated to observe practices of a mourner, even when he reaches the age of chinuch, the practice of not eating meat is not a function of mourning (as a mourner during shiva is allowed to eat meat and drink wine.) Instead, it is part of the obligation to mourn and remember the Beit Hamikdash. (See Gemara Baba Batra 60b). Children do not have an obligation to observe the laws of mourning, but they do have an obligation to remember the beit hamidkash. Therefore they refrain from eating meat and drinking wine during the nine days once they have reached the age of chinuch. | * [https://www.yutorah.org/lectures/lecture.cfm/890440/rabbi-hershel-schachter/are-children-obligated-in-observances-that-commemorate-the-destruction-of-the-beis-hamikdash-/ Rav Hershel Schachter] explains that although normally a child is not obligated to observe practices of a mourner, even when he reaches the age of chinuch, the practice of not eating meat is not a function of mourning (as a mourner during shiva is allowed to eat meat and drink wine.) Instead, it is part of the obligation to mourn and remember the Beit Hamikdash. (See Gemara Baba Batra 60b). Children do not have an obligation to observe the laws of mourning, but they do have an obligation to remember the beit hamidkash. Therefore they refrain from eating meat and drinking wine during the nine days once they have reached the age of chinuch. | ||
* Rabbi Eider (The Halachos Of The Three Weeks p. 7) writes that generally the minhag not to eat meat even applies to children. But if it is hard to feed a child dairy and he is used to eating meat every day he can continue to eat meat in the Nine Days. | * Rabbi Eider (The Halachos Of The Three Weeks p. 7) writes that generally the minhag not to eat meat even applies to children. But if it is hard to feed a child dairy and he is used to eating meat every day he can continue to eat meat in the Nine Days. | ||
* Aruch Hashulchan 551:26 as well says there is room to be lenient, especially in a case where it is a weak child who can gain a lot from eating the meat.</ref> | * Aruch Hashulchan 551:26 as well says there is room to be lenient, especially in a case where it is a weak child who can gain a lot from eating the meat.</ref> Sepharadim however, allow it.<Ref>Chazon Ovadia Arba Taaniyot pg. 190 allows feeding meat to children until the year before Bar/Bat Mitzva. Rabbi David Yosef in torat hamoadim Siman 5 page 190 agrees. Ohr Letzion 3: pg. 245 3:26:6 allows it until Bar Mitzva. See Yalkut Yosef Chinuch p. 279 where he says that for a child who is even a little bit weak can eat meat during the nine days. He cites Yabia Omer YD 3:3 and 4:4. </ref> | ||
Sepharadim however, allow it.<Ref>Chazon Ovadia Arba Taaniyot pg. 190 allows feeding meat to children until the year before Bar/Bat Mitzva. Rabbi David Yosef in torat hamoadim Siman 5 page 190 agrees. Ohr Letzion 3: pg. 245 3:26:6 allows it until Bar Mitzva </ref> | # It is permitted to give children meat for their Firday night Shabbat meal even if it is earlier than plag mincha.<ref>[https://www.torahanytime.com/#/lectures?a=155681 Rav Shmuel Fuerst (Three Weeks and Nine Days, min 29-30)] quoting Rav Moshe Feinstein</ref> | ||
===Brit Milah and Seudat Mitzva=== | ===Brit Milah and Seudat Mitzva=== | ||
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==Showering, Bathing, and Swimming== | ==Showering, Bathing, and Swimming== | ||
===Ashkenazim=== | |||
#The Ashkenazic minhag is not to go swimming even in cold water in the Nine Days.<ref>Sh"t Teshuvot VeHanhagot 2:263, Piskei Teshuvot 551:46</ref> Some Poskim agree that it is permitted to go swimming for exercise, but not for fun.<ref> | #The Ashkenazic minhag is not to go swimming even in cold water in the Nine Days.<ref>Sh"t Teshuvot VeHanhagot 2:263, Piskei Teshuvot 551:46</ref> Some Poskim agree that it is permitted to go swimming for exercise, but not for fun.<ref> | ||
[http://www.yutorah.org/lectures/lecture.cfm/735559/Rabbi_Aryeh_Lebowitz/Halachos_of_the_Three_Weeks Rabbi Ayreh Lebowitz], Moadei Yeshurun (pg 128) quoting Rav Moshe Feinstein, Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach in Halichot Shlomo (Moadim, vol 2, chap 14, note 7), MeBayit Levi (vol 13, pg 22, note 5) quoting Rav Wosner, Sh"t Rivevot Ephraim 3:333, 4:135:14, 6:285:2, and Shevet HaKehati 1:169:4. [http://books.google.com/books?id=k2lV5wQwwj0C&lpg=PA34&ots=yg-xJtgt00&dq=swimming%20during%20the%20three%20weeks&pg=PA12#v=onepage&q=swimming%20during%20the%20three%20weeks&f=false Rabbi Eider] quotes Rav Moshe Feinstein (Iggerot Moshe Even Haezer 4:84) as holding that even during the [[nine days]] if one is sweating or dirty and wants to wash off it is permissible to dip in the pool for a short time. Shaarim Mitzuyanim Bihalacha (kuntres acharon 122:12) is lenient with children swimming in private area during the [[nine days]], but not in public, like camps.</ref> | [http://www.yutorah.org/lectures/lecture.cfm/735559/Rabbi_Aryeh_Lebowitz/Halachos_of_the_Three_Weeks Rabbi Ayreh Lebowitz], Moadei Yeshurun (pg 128) quoting Rav Moshe Feinstein, Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach in Halichot Shlomo (Moadim, vol 2, chap 14, note 7), MeBayit Levi (vol 13, pg 22, note 5) quoting Rav Wosner, Sh"t Rivevot Ephraim 3:333, 4:135:14, 6:285:2, and Shevet HaKehati 1:169:4. [http://books.google.com/books?id=k2lV5wQwwj0C&lpg=PA34&ots=yg-xJtgt00&dq=swimming%20during%20the%20three%20weeks&pg=PA12#v=onepage&q=swimming%20during%20the%20three%20weeks&f=false Rabbi Eider] quotes Rav Moshe Feinstein (Iggerot Moshe Even Haezer 4:84) as holding that even during the [[nine days]] if one is sweating or dirty and wants to wash off it is permissible to dip in the pool for a short time. Shaarim Mitzuyanim Bihalacha (kuntres acharon 122:12) is lenient with children swimming in private area during the [[nine days]], but not in public, like camps.</ref> | ||
# The Ashkenazic minhag is to avoid pleasure bathing all nine days.<ref>Rama Orach Chaim 551:16</ref> The Sephardi minhag is only to refrain from bathing in warm water during the week which Tisha BeAv falls out.<ref>Yalkut Yosef 551:13. Shulchan Aruch O.C. 551:16 writes that the practice in some places is to refrain from bathing during the week which Tisha BeAv falls out and some places have the practice not to bathe during the entire Nine Days.</ref> | # The Ashkenazic minhag is to avoid pleasure bathing all nine days.<ref>Rama Orach Chaim 551:16</ref> The Sephardi minhag is only to refrain from bathing in warm water during the week which Tisha BeAv falls out.<ref>Yalkut Yosef 551:13. Shulchan Aruch O.C. 551:16 writes that the practice in some places is to refrain from bathing during the week which Tisha BeAv falls out and some places have the practice not to bathe during the entire Nine Days.</ref> | ||
#If someone is sweaty or dirty it is permitted to shower during the nine days to clean off and not for pleasure.<ref>Aruch Hashulchan 551:37 writes that it is permitted for someone who is dirty to bathe normally since he is doing so for cleanliness and not pleasure. Igrot Moshe EH 4:84:4 writes similarly that someone sweaty on a hot day can shower during the nine days.</ref> Some say that it should only be done with cold water and only with part of the body at a time.<ref>See Shevet Halevi 7:77 who rules that someone sweaty can shower in cold water with part of the body at a time but he adds that it is up to a God-fearing person when to be lenient about this. Vayivarech Dovid 1:74 permits showering to remove sweat even with soap.</ref> | #If someone is sweaty or dirty it is permitted to shower during the nine days to clean off and not for pleasure.<ref>Aruch Hashulchan 551:37 writes that it is permitted for someone who is dirty to bathe normally since he is doing so for cleanliness and not pleasure. Igrot Moshe EH 4:84:4 writes similarly that someone sweaty on a hot day can shower during the nine days.</ref> Some say that it should only be done with cold water and only with part of the body at a time.<ref>See Shevet Halevi 7:77 who rules that someone sweaty can shower in cold water with part of the body at a time but he adds that it is up to a God-fearing person when to be lenient about this. Vayivarech Dovid 1:74 permits showering to remove sweat even with soap.</ref> | ||
#On Friday before Shabbat Chazon some permit someone who always takes a shower on Friday to take a shower before Shabbat. See sources on the [[Shabbat Chazon]] page. | #On Friday before Shabbat Chazon some permit someone who always takes a shower on Friday to take a shower before Shabbat. See sources on the [[Shabbat Chazon]] page. | ||
===Sephardim=== | |||
# The Sephardic minhag, however, is to refrain from swimming in cold water only during the week in which [[Tisha BeAv]] falls (Shevua SheChal Bo).<ref>Yalkut Yosef (Shevua SheChal Bo #14) writes that strictly speaking the Sephardic minhag would allow swimming in cold water during Shevua SheChal Bo, however, because of danger it's proper to refrain from it. This is the position of Rav Ovadya Yosef in Sh"t Yechave Daat 1:38. [http://www.dailyhalacha.com/displayRead.asp?readID=2181 Rabbi Mansour on dailyhalacha.com] however, writes that swimming during Shevua SheChal Bo is forbidden because of bathing. See also Or Letzion 3:25:5 and [http://www.moroccanhalacha.com/flying-and-swimming-during-ben-hametzarim/ Magen Avot].</ref> | |||
#According to Sephardim, it is permitted to shower or bathe during the Nine Days and refrain from showers and baths during the week that Tisha BeAv falls out.<Ref>Rabbi Nacson's Laws of Three Weeks p. 24 quoting Chazon Ovadia p. 238</ref> | |||
#If it is very hot and he is very uncomfortable because of the sweat it is permitted to shower in cold water even during the week that Tisha BeAv falls out.<Ref>Rabbi Nacson's Laws of Three Weeks p. 24 quoting Chazon Ovadia p. 238</ref> | |||
==Cutting Nails== | ==Cutting Nails== | ||
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#It is permitted to have one's grass cut during the [[nine days]], however, one should refrain from doing so on [[Tisha BeAv]].<ref>Rivevot Efraim 1:374 quoting Rav Moshe Bick, Rav Chaim Pinchas Scheinberg, and Rav Munk writes that it is permitted to cut one's grass during the [[nine days]], but on [[Tisha BeAv]] itself one should be strict not to.</ref> | #It is permitted to have one's grass cut during the [[nine days]], however, one should refrain from doing so on [[Tisha BeAv]].<ref>Rivevot Efraim 1:374 quoting Rav Moshe Bick, Rav Chaim Pinchas Scheinberg, and Rav Munk writes that it is permitted to cut one's grass during the [[nine days]], but on [[Tisha BeAv]] itself one should be strict not to.</ref> | ||
==Buying Clothing== | ==Buying or Wearing New Clothing== | ||
#There is a restriction on buying new items which would warrant a Shehechiyanu during the entire [[Three Weeks]] ( [[Three_Weeks#Saying_Shehecheyanu]]). | #There is a restriction on buying new items which would warrant a Shehechiyanu during the entire [[Three Weeks]] ( [[Three_Weeks#Saying_Shehecheyanu]]). | ||
#In the Nine Days in particular, it is forbidden to buy new clothes even if there is no Shehechiyanu. <ref>Rama Orach Chaim 551:7 </ref> This practice applies to Ashkenazim and also Sephardim.<ref>The Rama Orach Chaim 551:7 writes that since it is forbidden to mend a garment during the nine days, certainly it is forbidden to buy a new garment then. The Kaf Hachaim 551:21 explains that according to Shulchan Aruch this is permitted. Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 551:2 only forbids buying items during the nine days if it leads to happiness such as buying an item for a wedding, but not in general. This also seems to be the opinion of the Ben Ish Chai (Shana Rishona, Devarim no. 2). See, however, Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 554:22. Mikraei Kodesh (Ben Hametzarim 13:2) quotes Rav Mordechai Eliyahu as being strict about buying garments during the nine days and Rav Ovadia Yosef as being lenient. Yet, Chazon Ovadia (Ben Hametzarim p. 208) seems to accept the custom that one should be strict not to buy new garments during the nine days. Or Letzion 3:26:2 is strict.</ref> | #In the Nine Days in particular, it is forbidden to buy new clothes even if there is no Shehechiyanu.<ref>Rama Orach Chaim 551:7 </ref> This practice applies to Ashkenazim and also Sephardim.<ref>The Rama Orach Chaim 551:7 writes that since it is forbidden to mend a garment during the nine days, certainly it is forbidden to buy a new garment then. The Kaf Hachaim 551:21 explains that according to Shulchan Aruch this is permitted. Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 551:2 only forbids buying items during the nine days if it leads to happiness such as buying an item for a wedding, but not in general. This also seems to be the opinion of the Ben Ish Chai (Shana Rishona, Devarim no. 2). See, however, Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 554:22. Mikraei Kodesh (Ben Hametzarim 13:2) quotes Rav Mordechai Eliyahu as being strict about buying garments during the nine days and Rav Ovadia Yosef as being lenient. Yet, Chazon Ovadia (Ben Hametzarim p. 208) seems to accept the custom that one should be strict not to buy new garments during the nine days. Or Letzion 3:26:2 is strict.</ref> | ||
#The Ashkenazic minhag is not to wear new clothing during the Nine Days includes Shabbat of the Nine Days.<ref>Magen Avraham 551:7 and Mishna Brurah 551:9 write that it is forbidden to wear new garments during the Nine Days including Shabbat. Even though the Biur Halacha 551:6 s.v. kelim says it is permitted to wear a new undershirt on Shabbat Chazon, the Piskei Teshuvot 551:26 quotes Rav Sraya Deblitzky in his sefer Tisha Bav Shechal Byom Eched who is bothered by the seeming contradiction in the Mishna Brurah.</ref> | #It is forbidden to buy new clothing during the nine days even if he is only going to wear them after Tisha B'av.<ref>The Mishna Brurah 551:49 writes that it's forbidden to buy new clothes even if one will only wear them after [[Tisha BeAv]]. Kaf HaChaim 551:103 agrees.</ref> | ||
#The Ashkenazic minhag is not to wear new clothing during the Nine Days includes Shabbat of the Nine Days. Sephardim don't wear new clothing the week of Tisha B'av.<ref> | |||
*Rabbenu Shevet (quoted by the Mordechai Taanit 633) writes that one may not fix or wear new clothes during the week in which [[Tisha BeAv]] falls and adds that it is proper to be strict about this during the [[Nine Days]]. He bases this on the Yerushalmi (Pesachim 4:1) which says that it is a proper minhag not to sew from the beginning of Av. Bet Yosef 551:6 explains that although the Yerushalmi said not to sew during the [[Nine Days]], that's only a minhag, however, there is only an actual prohibition during the week in which [[Tisha BeAv]] falls out. Shulchan Aruch O.C. 551:6 rules that it is forbidden to wear new clothes during the week in which [[Tisha BeAv]] falls out and the Rama adds that the Ashkenazic minhag is to be strict about this starting from [[Rosh Chodesh]] Av (during the entire [[Nine Days]]). | |||
*Magen Avraham 551:7 and Mishna Brurah 551:9 write that it is forbidden to wear new garments during the Nine Days including Shabbat. Even though the Biur Halacha 551:6 s.v. kelim says it is permitted to wear a new undershirt on Shabbat Chazon, the Piskei Teshuvot 551:26 quotes Rav Sraya Deblitzky in his sefer Tisha Bav Shechal Byom Eched who is bothered by the seeming contradiction in the Mishna Brurah.</ref> | |||
==The Week Tisha B'av Falls Out== | ==The Week Tisha B'av Falls Out== | ||
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#Sephardim may not cut their hair, shave, do laundry, or wear newly laundered clothing the week of Tisha B'av.<ref>Mishna Tanit 26b, Rambam Taniyot 5:6, Shulchan Aruch O.C. 551:3</ref> Ashkenazim are strict about hair cutting and shaving for all Three Weeks and laundry for all Nine Days.<ref>Rama Orach Chaim 551:4</ref> | #Sephardim may not cut their hair, shave, do laundry, or wear newly laundered clothing the week of Tisha B'av.<ref>Mishna Tanit 26b, Rambam Taniyot 5:6, Shulchan Aruch O.C. 551:3</ref> Ashkenazim are strict about hair cutting and shaving for all Three Weeks and laundry for all Nine Days.<ref>Rama Orach Chaim 551:4</ref> | ||
#If Tisha B'av falls out on Shabbat and is pushed off until Sunday, according to Sephardim the practices of the weeks before Tisha B'av do not apply that year.<ref>Rabbi Ba in Yerushalmi Tanit 4:6 explains that if Tisha B'av falls out on Shabbat and the fast is delayed until Sunday the restrictions of the week of Tisha B'av don't apply. The Rosh (Tanit 4:32) and Ran (Tanit 9b s.v. yerushalmi) accept the Yerushalmi. However, the Smag (Asin Derabbanan 3) writes the minhag is to forbid the entire week of Tisha B'av even when it falls out on Shabbat. Hagahot Maimiyot (Taniyot 5:5), Smak 96, and Kol Bo (Feldheim 5769 Edition, 62 s.v. vkesat, fnt. 148) agree. Shulchan Aruch O.C. 551:4 rules like the Yerushalmi. Rama is strict because either way Ashkenazim don't launder clothing or wear laundered clothing for all Nine Days and don't cut their hair all Three Weeks.</ref> | #If Tisha B'av falls out on Shabbat and is pushed off until Sunday, according to Sephardim the practices of the weeks before Tisha B'av do not apply that year.<ref>Rabbi Ba in Yerushalmi Tanit 4:6 explains that if Tisha B'av falls out on Shabbat and the fast is delayed until Sunday the restrictions of the week of Tisha B'av don't apply. The Rosh (Tanit 4:32) and Ran (Tanit 9b s.v. yerushalmi) accept the Yerushalmi. However, the Smag (Asin Derabbanan 3) writes the minhag is to forbid the entire week of Tisha B'av even when it falls out on Shabbat. Hagahot Maimiyot (Taniyot 5:5), Smak 96, and Kol Bo (Feldheim 5769 Edition, 62 s.v. vkesat, fnt. 148) agree. Shulchan Aruch O.C. 551:4 rules like the Yerushalmi. Rama is strict because either way Ashkenazim don't launder clothing or wear laundered clothing for all Nine Days and don't cut their hair all Three Weeks.</ref> | ||
==Haftorot== | |||
#When Rosh Chodesh Av falls out on Shabbat, the minhag is to read the haftorah חזון ישיעיהו (Yishayahu 1).<ref>In the rishonim there are three possible haftorot. | |||
* The Gemara Megillah 31b writes that we should recite the haftorah of Chazon Yishayahu when Rosh Chodesh Av is on Shabbat. | |||
* Tosfot Megillah 31b s.v. rosh explains that today we don't do that because we have the practice like the pesikta to read the three haftorot of destruction between shiva asar btamuz and tisha bav: Divrei Yirmiyahu, Shimu Dvar Hashem, and Chazon Yishyahu. Darkei Moshe 425:1 quotes this practice from the Avudraham, Mordechai (Megillah n. 821), and Minhagim (R' Tirna, Minhag Chodesh Av p. 77). Rama O.C. 425:1 writes that the minhag is to read Shimu Dvar Hashem (Yirmiyahu 2:4) when Rosh Chodesh Av is on Shabbat, as part of the three haftorah's of destruction (Heb. ג' דפרענותא; trans. gimmel d'paranuta). Kaf Hachayim 425:14 and Yalkut Yosef 425:2 agree with the minhag to read Shimu Dvar Hashem. Yalkut Yosef writes that it is proper to add the first and last pasuk of Hashamayim Kisiy. See Yachava Daat 3:42 and 4:35. | |||
* Tosfot Pesachim 40b s.v. aval writes that the minhag is to read the haftorah of hashamayim kisiy, the regular haftorah for [[Rosh Chodesh]]. Trumat Hadeshen 19 says that in a place where there is no established minhag they should read hashamayim kisiy because it is tadir. Rama 425:1 codifies this opinion if there's no minhag. Gra 425:8 disagrees and always prefer Shimu. He claims that Tosfot Pesachim 40b s.v. aval is a scribal error, though the same text is found in Tosfot Shantz Pesachim 40b s.v. aval. (See Tosfot Harosh Pesachim 40b s.v. aval which is unclear since it isn't clear what his text in the pesikta was.) Mishna Brurah 425:8 and Kaf Hachayim 425:16 codify the Gra.</ref> | |||
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