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# A woman does not need to wear white undergarments on the night of her veset.<ref>Shoshanat Ha'amakim 7:10</ref> | # A woman does not need to wear white undergarments on the night of her veset.<ref>Shoshanat Ha'amakim 7:10</ref> | ||
# If the veset period falls out on the tevilah night many poskim hold that the veset remains in place and she is forbidden to her husband.<ref>Pitchei Teshuva YD 184:22 quoting the Chatom Sofer 170, Chavot Daat 184:13, and Sidrei Tahara 184:14 hold that the veset is forbidden even on the tevilah night. However, the Pitchei Teshuva also quotes the Knesset Yechezkel who is lenient. See also Torat Hashlamim 187:29 who is in favor of the lenient side. Rav Ovadia Yosef in Taharat Habayit v. 1 p. 103 rules that for a non-established veset one could be lenient but not for an established veset.</ref> | # If the veset period falls out on the tevilah night many poskim hold that the veset remains in place and she is forbidden to her husband.<ref>Pitchei Teshuva YD 184:22 quoting the Chatom Sofer 170, Chavot Daat 184:13, and Sidrei Tahara 184:14 hold that the veset is forbidden even on the tevilah night. However, the Pitchei Teshuva also quotes the Knesset Yechezkel who is lenient. See also Torat Hashlamim 187:29 who is in favor of the lenient side. Rav Ovadia Yosef in Taharat Habayit v. 1 p. 103 rules that for a non-established veset one could be lenient but not for an established veset.</ref> | ||
===If Her Husband is Travelling=== | |||
# A husband has an obligation to be with his wife before he goes away. This obligation applies even at her veset.<ref>Shulchan Aruch 184:9 </ref> Some poskim say that this includes having marital relations.<ref> Shulchan Aruch 184:9</ref>Some poskim say that relations are not permitted, and they should only hug and kiss if it is the time of her veset.<ref> Rama 184:9 says that some poskim allow relations but it is better to be strict. Shach 184:27 writes that even though he said earlier 184:6 that you should try to avoid hugging and kissing at the veset, when the husband is travelling you should hug and kiss.</ref> | |||
# If he is travelling for a mitzva, this is not required.<Ref> Rama 184:9</ref> | |||
# This only applies if the husband is travelling, and not if the wife is travelling.<ref> Badei Hashulchan 184:71 </ref> | |||
==Veset for a Pregnant or Nursing Woman== | ==Veset for a Pregnant or Nursing Woman== |