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==Yahrtzeit Candle== | ==Yahrtzeit Candle== | ||
# The custom is to light a candle on the yahrtzeit of a parent. <ref> Magen Avraham OC 261:6 writes that if one forgot to light it earlier, he can ask a non-Jew to light a yahrtzeit candle during bein hashemashot. </ref> | # The custom is to light a candle on the yahrtzeit of a parent. <ref> Magen Avraham OC 261:6 writes that if one forgot to light it earlier, he can ask a non-Jew to light a yahrtzeit candle during bein hashemashot. Chazon Ovadia (Aveilut v. 3 p. 54) writes that the minhag is to light a candle on the yehrzeit of a parent. </ref> | ||
# Some poskim say that you cannot use an electric light as a yahrtzeit candle. <Ref> Mishneh Halachot 5:70. | # Some poskim say that you cannot use an electric light as a yahrtzeit candle. <Ref> Mishneh Halachot 5:70</ref> Others permit it to fulfill this minhag.<ref>Chazon Ovadia (Aveilut v 3. p. 54). </ref> | ||
==Wedding Celebrations== | ==Wedding Celebrations== | ||
# One should avoid going to a wedding celebration on the yahrtzeit of a parent. <ref> Rama YD 391:3, Yalkut Yosef Kitzur Shulchan Aruch 2:274 says if possible even sepharadim should be stringent for this even though it is only mentioned by the Rama</ref> | # One should avoid going to a wedding celebration on the yahrtzeit of a parent. <ref> Rama YD 391:3, Yalkut Yosef Kitzur Shulchan Aruch 2:274 says if possible even sepharadim should be stringent for this even though it is only mentioned by the Rama</ref> |