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===Engagement=== | ===Engagement=== | ||
#It is permitted to become engaged or write tenaim during the [[Nine Days]], and even on [[Tisha BeAv]] itself as long as there is no meal to celebrate | #It is permitted to become engaged or write tenaim during the [[Nine Days]], and even on [[Tisha BeAv]] itself as long as there is no meal, music, or dancing to celebrate.<ref>Shulchan Aruch O.C. 551:2 with Magen Avraham 551:10, and Mishna Brurah 551:16 and 19, Tur 551 in the name of Rav Nissim, Kitzur Shulchan Aruch 122:1, Pri Megadim Eshel Avraham 551:10, Baer Heitev 551:11, Moed Likol Chai 9:18, Ben Ish Chai Parashat Devarim 1:5, Chayei Adam 133:8, Aruch Hashulchan 551:8, Yalkut Yosef Moadim page 553. <br /> | ||
However, the Tzitz Eliezer (13:60) notes that many Jews refrain from doing so on Tisha B'Av. In addition, the Ben Ish Chai (Devarim: Halacha 4) writes that in Baghdad, they would not get engaged during the nine days between Rosh Chodesh Av and Tisha B'Av. He says further that it is preferred not to get engaged at all during the "Three Weeks." </ref> Until [[Rosh Chodesh]], one is allowed to celebrate the engagement with a festive meal but without dancing.<ref>Mishna Brurah 551:19 </ref> | However, the Tzitz Eliezer (13:60) notes that many Jews refrain from doing so on Tisha B'Av. In addition, the Ben Ish Chai (Devarim: Halacha 4) writes that in Baghdad, they would not get engaged during the nine days between Rosh Chodesh Av and Tisha B'Av. He says further that it is preferred not to get engaged at all during the "Three Weeks." </ref> Until [[Rosh Chodesh]], one is allowed to celebrate the engagement with a festive meal but without dancing.<ref>Mishna Brurah 551:19 </ref> | ||
# | #It is permitted for the chattan and kallah to wear Shabbat clothing to their engagement party.<ref>Halichos Shlomo Moadim 2:14:4 </ref> | ||
#Some poskim allow buying the engagement ring during the nine days<ref>Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach in Shalmei Simcha page 61 </ref> | #Some poskim allow buying the engagement ring during the nine days,<ref>Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach in Shalmei Simcha page 61 </ref> while others are strict unless there will be a financial loss.<ref>Igros Moshe E.H. 4:84 </ref> | ||
==Meals or Activities with Friends== | ==Meals or Activities with Friends== | ||
