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# The chattan and kallah to wear Shabbat clothing to their engagement party. <ref> Halichos Shlomo Moadim 2:14:4 </ref> | # The chattan and kallah to wear Shabbat clothing to their engagement party. <ref> Halichos Shlomo Moadim 2:14:4 </ref> | ||
# Some poskim allow buying the engagement ring during the nine days<ref>Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach in Shalmei Simcha page 61 </ref>, while others are strict unless there will be a financial loss.<ref> Igros Moshe E.H. 4:84 </ref> | # Some poskim allow buying the engagement ring during the nine days<ref>Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach in Shalmei Simcha page 61 </ref>, while others are strict unless there will be a financial loss.<ref> Igros Moshe E.H. 4:84 </ref> | ||
==Meals with Friends== | |||
# Some say that it is forbidden to have meals with friends during the nine days. <Ref>Aruch Hashulchan 551:8</ref> However, if it isn't a meal but only desserts, that is okay.<ref>Magen Avraham 551:10, Nitai Gavriel (Ben Hametzarim 16:1)</ref> | |||
==Cutting Hair== | ==Cutting Hair== |