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# The Ashkenazic custom is not to get married during the Sefira until the 33rd day (Lag BaOmer). <Ref> Rama 493:1 </ref> | # The Ashkenazic custom is not to get married during the Sefira until the 33rd day (Lag BaOmer). <Ref> Rama 493:1 </ref> | ||
# If the marriage involves a couple with one side who is Ashkenazic and one side Sephardic, the custom of the husband should be followed. <ref> Sh"t Yabea Omer 3:26(4), Yalkut Yosef (Moadim pg 429) </ref> | # If the marriage involves a couple with one side who is Ashkenazic and one side Sephardic, the custom of the husband should be followed. <ref> Sh"t Yabea Omer 3:26(4), Yalkut Yosef (Moadim pg 429) </ref> | ||
# If one is invited to a wedding which takes place during a time of the sefira when one's custom is to observe the practices of mourning, and the one who is getting married has the custom that it is permissible to get married then, one should not refrain from going to the wedding because of the sefira.<Ref>[http://www.yutorah.org/lectures/lecture.cfm/774533/Rabbi_Hershel_Schachter/Shiur_#80_-_Yevamos_-_מפני_מה_גרים_בזה'ז_מעונים,_יש_זיקה,_ספירת_העומר Rabbi Hershel Schachter on yutorah.org (at the very end)] based on a ruling of Rav Moshe Feinstein</ref> | |||
===Getting engaged=== | ===Getting engaged=== | ||
# It's permissible to get engaged during the Sefirah, however one may not have music and one shouldn't dance much. <ref> Maamer Mordechai of Rav Mordechai Eliyahu (Sefirat HaOmer #45) </ref> | # It's permissible to get engaged during the Sefirah, however one may not have music and one shouldn't dance much. <ref> Maamer Mordechai of Rav Mordechai Eliyahu (Sefirat HaOmer #45) </ref> | ||
