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Initially, the Cherem was issued only in European communities such as Germany, France<ref>Shu"t Radvaz 4:1165 cites both Ashkenaz and France</ref> and Poland<ref>Rama (who lived in Poland), Even HaEzer 1:10 ("B'chol medinos eliu")</ref> but not in the Sephardic communities<ref>Shu"t Beis Yosef Dinei Ketuvos 14. Shu"t HaRashba 3:446 mentions the same for Provence. For a longer list of opinions in support, see Shu"t Yabia Omer, Even HaEzer 5:1</ref>. However, in the last century, a ban on polygamy has been universally accepted throughout both Ashkenazic and Sephardic communities, albeit through different mechanisms. | Initially, the Cherem was issued only in European communities such as Germany, France<ref>Shu"t Radvaz 4:1165 cites both Ashkenaz and France</ref> and Poland<ref>Rama (who lived in Poland), Even HaEzer 1:10 ("B'chol medinos eliu")</ref> but not in the Sephardic communities<ref>Shu"t Beis Yosef Dinei Ketuvos 14. Shu"t HaRashba 3:446 mentions the same for Provence. For a longer list of opinions in support, see Shu"t Yabia Omer, Even HaEzer 5:1</ref>. However, in the last century, a ban on polygamy has been universally accepted throughout both Ashkenazic and Sephardic communities, albeit through different mechanisms. | ||
#In Ashkenazi communities, unless it is known that a city did not have the custom to uphold the Cherem D'Rabbeinu Gershom, it is assumed that the Cherem is in effect by default.<ref>Rama (quoting the MaHari Mintz), Even HaEzer 1:10. Levush Even HaEzer 1:10.</ref> | #In Ashkenazi communities, unless it is known that a city did not have the custom to uphold the Cherem D'Rabbeinu Gershom, it is assumed that the Cherem is in effect by default.<ref>Rama (quoting the MaHari Mintz), Even HaEzer 1:10. Levush Even HaEzer 1:10.</ref> In countries such as the United States and Australia, where Jews were not living there when the Cherem D'Rabbeinu Gershom was enacted, it is assumed that the Cherem applies there as well since the Jews in those countries are mostly descendants of the ones who were originally in Europe.<ref>Aruch HaShulchan, Even HaEzer 1:23</ref> | ||
#In Sephardic communities, such as those in Israel (where the Cherem D'Rabbeinu Gershom was never in effect), the popular contemporary custom is to include a shev'uah (Halachic swear) in the text of a Ketubah stating that the husband will provide for his wife and will not engage in polygamy or forcibly divorce his wife, similar elements as those stated in the Cherem D'Rabbeinu Gershom.<ref>Shulchan Aruch, Even HaEzer 1:11, 118:15. This has become the widespread minhag of the Sephardic world (See Shu"t Yabia Omer Vol. 7 Even HaEzer 2:3, Rav Shlomo Ammar in Shu"t Shema Shlomo 5: Even HaEzer 20. Exceptions may exist in some Moroccan communities, though this is the predominant minhag.) and of the Israeli Rabbinate at large. </ref> | #In Sephardic communities, such as those in Israel (where the Cherem D'Rabbeinu Gershom was never in effect), the popular contemporary custom is to include a shev'uah (Halachic swear) in the text of a Ketubah stating that the husband will provide for his wife and will not engage in polygamy or forcibly divorce his wife, similar elements as those stated in the Cherem D'Rabbeinu Gershom.<ref>Shulchan Aruch, Even HaEzer 1:11, 118:15. This has become the widespread minhag of the Sephardic world (See Shu"t Yabia Omer Vol. 7 Even HaEzer 2:3, Rav Shlomo Ammar in Shu"t Shema Shlomo 5: Even HaEzer 20. Exceptions may exist in some Moroccan communities, though this is the predominant minhag.) and of the Israeli Rabbinate at large. </ref> | ||
