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The following are the three most important components of the Cherem D’Rabbeinu Gershom: | The following are the three most important components of the Cherem D’Rabbeinu Gershom: | ||
#If a man is already married, he is prohibited from marrying any additional women.<ref>Ritva on Yevamos 44a in the name of Tosfos. | #If a man is already married, he is prohibited from marrying any additional women.<ref>Ritva on Yevamos 44a in the name of Tosfos, citing Rabbeinu Gershom. The Ritva also notes that the Rambam, who lived in an area where this decree was not put into effect, did not place any such restrictions at all.</ref> | ||
#A man is prohibited from divorcing his wife against her will | #A man is prohibited from divorcing his wife against her will | ||
#One is prohibited from reading other people’s mail without permission | #One is prohibited from reading other people’s mail without permission | ||
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=Not Marrying More Than One Wife= | =Not Marrying More Than One Wife= | ||
Prior to the enactment of | Prior to the enactment of the Cherem D'Rabbeinu Gershom, one was permitted to marry multiple wives, provided he was able to provide financially and emotionally for each of them.<ref>Rambam Hilchos Ishus 14:3, Tur Even HaEzer 1:9 ruling like Rava on the Machlokes found on Yevamos 65a. Nonetheless at the end of the Siman, the Tur forbids anyone from marrying more than one woman in places where the Cherem D'Rabbeinu Gershom was put into effect.</ref> A number of reasons have been provided for its enactment including preventing abusive and womanizing husbands from mistreating their wives<ref>Shu"t MaHarik Shoresh 101</ref>, preventing marital fights<ref>Darkei Moshe, Even HaEzer Siman 1:11, Mordechai on Kesuvos, Siman 291</ref> and preventing men from marrying wives that they would not be able to support<ref>Shu"t Mishkenos Yaakov, Even HaEzer Siman 1, Shu"t Maharam Padova Siman 14</ref>. Others include an additional reason of preventing a possible scenario where the son and daughter of one man (from two separate women) want to marry each other, a union prohibited according to Halacha<ref>Yevamos 37b</ref>. | ||
=Not Divorcing a Woman Against Her Will= | =Not Divorcing a Woman Against Her Will= | ||
