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# One does not have license to obtain any negative information unless it is really relevant and necessary to the potential partnership. Still, even when the impetus for the fact-finding is justified, one is very much obligated to disclose his reason for asking for negative information. This is so the person answering does not relate information with the wrong intention.<ref> Chofetz Chaim, Hilchot Lashon Harah 4:11</ref> | # One does not have license to obtain any negative information unless it is really relevant and necessary to the potential partnership. Still, even when the impetus for the fact-finding is justified, one is very much obligated to disclose his reason for asking for negative information. This is so the person answering does not relate information with the wrong intention.<ref> Chofetz Chaim, Hilchot Lashon Harah 4:11</ref> | ||
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# Certain forms of speech are not intrinsically prohibited but are nonetheless instituted rabbinically as safeguards to protect people from speaking Lashon Harah. For example, one is not allowed to say, "Who would believe that he would turn out so well?" or "Let's not discuss him, because I do not want to say what he did." | # Certain forms of speech are not intrinsically prohibited but are nonetheless instituted rabbinically as safeguards to protect people from speaking Lashon Harah ("Avak Lashon Hara" / אבק לשון הרע). For example, one is not allowed to say, "Who would believe that he would turn out so well?" or "Let's not discuss him, because I do not want to say what he did." | ||
# It is also prohibited to speak positively about someone in front of those who think negatively about him or might dislike him. It is also not allowed to speak excessively positively about any individual, as eventually the listener might be tempted to highlight some of the subject's negative characteristics as well. | # It is also prohibited to speak positively about someone in front of those who think negatively about him or might dislike him. It is also not allowed to speak excessively positively about any individual, as eventually the listener might be tempted to highlight some of the subject's negative characteristics as well. | ||
# When speaking in front of a large group of people, one is not permitted to speak positively about anyone else for fear of what negative features about the said person those in the audience might begin to discuss among themselves. Obviously if the context and reason for the speech lends to positive discussion – about the honoree of the occasion, for example – then this prohibition does not apply. | # When speaking in front of a large group of people, one is not permitted to speak positively about anyone else for fear of what negative features about the said person those in the audience might begin to discuss among themselves. Obviously if the context and reason for the speech lends to positive discussion – about the honoree of the occasion, for example – then this prohibition does not apply. | ||
