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===Standing for One's Parents=== | ===Standing for One's Parents=== | ||
# One must stand before one's mother and father<ref>Gemara [[Kiddushin]] 31b records Rav Yosef's practice to stand for his mother. Rambam Mamrim 6:3 writes that there is an obligation to stand for one's parents. Kitzur Shulchan Aruch 143:7 codifies this halacha.</ref> unless they forgo this honor.<ref>Rav Mordechai Eliyahu's comment on Kitzur Shulchan Aruch 143:7</ref> | # One must stand before one's mother and father<ref>Gemara [[Kiddushin]] 31b records Rav Yosef's practice to stand for his mother. Rambam Mamrim 6:3 writes that there is an obligation to stand for one's parents. Kitzur Shulchan Aruch 143:7 codifies this halacha.</ref> unless they forgo this honor.<ref>Rav Mordechai Eliyahu's comment on Kitzur Shulchan Aruch 143:7</ref> | ||
# One should stand for one's parent once he enters one's eyesight.<ref>Chaye Adam 67:7, Chiddushei Rav Chaim HaLevi (Talmud Torah 5:1)</ref> | # One should stand for one's parent once he enters one's eyesight.<ref> Chaye Adam 67:7, Chiddushei Rav Chaim HaLevi (Talmud Torah 5:1)</ref> | ||
# According to Ashkenazim one only needs to stand once a day and once a night.<ref>Chaye Adam 67:7</ref> According to Sephardim, one should stand every time a parent enters the room even if it is a hundred times a day.<ref>Yalkut Yosef (YD ch. 4 n. 8)</ref> | # According to Ashkenazim one only needs to stand once a day and once a night.<ref>Chaye Adam 67:7</ref> According to Sephardim, one should stand every time a parent enters the room even if it is a hundred times a day.<ref>Yalkut Yosef (YD ch. 4 n. 8)</ref> | ||
===Honoring in Thought=== | ===Honoring in Thought=== | ||
# One must honor his parents in thought as well. One should imagine that his parents are the most important people in the world even if other people do not see it that way. <ref> Yalkut Yosef Kibbud Av pg. 110 </ref> | # One must honor his parents in thought as well. One should imagine that his parents are the most important people in the world even if other people do not see it that way. <ref> Yalkut Yosef Kibbud Av pg. 110 </ref> | ||
===Spending Money on One's Parents=== | |||
# Even though the cost of fulfilling the mitzva of kibbud av va'em is supposed to come from the parents money, if the child chooses to pay, it is considered a mitzva. <ref> Yalkut Yosef Kibbud Av Va'em pg. 124 </ref> | |||
# If one's parents need financial support, it is proper for him to limit his spending somewhat so that he can give to his parents. <ref> Yalkut Yosef Kibbud Av Va'em pg. 123 </ref> | |||
==Calling Your Parents by Name== | ==Calling Your Parents by Name== | ||
