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# If one sees one's parent do a sin, one shouldn't say "you sinned" but rather "father, doesn't it say in Torah such and such?" in a question form and the parent will understand and not be embarrassed. <ref>Kitzur S"A 143:10</ref> | # If one sees one's parent do a sin, one shouldn't say "you sinned" but rather "father, doesn't it say in Torah such and such?" in a question form and the parent will understand and not be embarrassed. <ref>Kitzur S"A 143:10</ref> | ||
# If one's parents tells them to violate a Biblical or even a rabbinic prohibition, one shouldn't listen to one's parent.<ref>Kitzur S"A 143:11</ref> | # If one's parents tells them to violate a Biblical or even a rabbinic prohibition, one shouldn't listen to one's parent.<ref>Kitzur S"A 143:11</ref> | ||
===Standing for | ===Standing for One's Parents=== | ||
# One must stand before one's mother and father<ref>Gemara Kiddushin 31b records Rav Yosef's practice to stand for his mother. Rambam Mamrim 6:3 writes that there is an obligation to stand for one's parents. Kitzur S"A 143:7 codifies this halacha.</ref> unless they forgo this honor.<ref>Rav Mordechai Eliyahu's comment on Kitzur S"A 143:7</ref> | # One must stand before one's mother and father<ref>Gemara Kiddushin 31b records Rav Yosef's practice to stand for his mother. Rambam Mamrim 6:3 writes that there is an obligation to stand for one's parents. Kitzur S"A 143:7 codifies this halacha.</ref> unless they forgo this honor.<ref>Rav Mordechai Eliyahu's comment on Kitzur S"A 143:7</ref> | ||
==Having | ==Calling Your Parents by Name== | ||
# It is forbidden to call your parents by their name.<ref>Mar Bar Rav Ashi wouldn't call his father by his name and instead would say my father my master. Rambam Mamrim 6:3 rules that it is forbidden to call one's father by his personal name. S"A YD 240:2 codifies this as halacha.</ref> | |||
# One may not call one's friends by the name of one's father but rather should call them by a nickname. If one's parent's name is common one may call one's friend by that name not in front of one's parent.<ref>Rambam Mamrim 6:3, S"A YD 240:2</ref> | |||
# If one's parent foregoes this honor, one may them by their name, yet there is still a mitzvah not to call them by their name. If one uses a term of honor such as Mom or Dad one may call them by their name.<Ref>Igrot Moshe YD 1:133</ref> | |||
==Having Awe for One's Parents== | |||
# One shouldn't stand in the place where one's father usually stands to daven or sit in the place he usually sits at home.<ref>Kitzur S"A 143:2</ref> | # One shouldn't stand in the place where one's father usually stands to daven or sit in the place he usually sits at home.<ref>Kitzur S"A 143:2</ref> | ||
# One may not contradict his words or even say that one agrees with his words in front of him. <ref>Kitzur S"A 143:2</ref> | # One may not contradict his words or even say that one agrees with his words in front of him. <ref>Kitzur S"A 143:2</ref> | ||
