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==Honoring one's parents== | ==Honoring one's parents== | ||
# Included in [[honoring one's parents]] is feeding, dressing, and helping them walk. When one is doing such an activity, one should do it with a smile. <ref>Kitzur S"A 143:3</ref> | # Included in [[honoring one's parents]] is feeding, dressing, and helping them walk. When one is doing such an activity, one should do it with a smile. <ref>Kitzur S"A 143:3</ref> | ||
# If one sees one's parent do a sin, one shouldn't say "you sinned" but rather "father, doesn't it say in Torah such and such?" in a question form and the parent will understand and not be embarrassed. <ref>Kitzur S"A 143:10</ref> | # If one sees one's parent do a sin, one shouldn't say "you sinned" but rather "father, doesn't it say in Torah such and such?" in a question form and the parent will understand and not be embarrassed. <ref>Kitzur S"A 143:10</ref> | ||
# If one's parents tells them to violate a Biblical or even a rabbinic prohibition, one shouldn't listen to one's parent.<ref>Kitzur S"A 143:11</ref> | # If one's parents tells them to violate a Biblical or even a rabbinic prohibition, one shouldn't listen to one's parent.<ref>Kitzur S"A 143:11</ref> | ||
===Standing for one's parents=== | |||
# One must stand before one's mother and father<ref>Gemara Kiddushin 31b records Rav Yosef's practice to stand for his mother. Rambam Mamrim 6:3 writes that there is an obligation to stand for one's parents. Kitzur S"A 143:7 codifies this halacha.</ref> unless they forgo this honor.<ref>Rav Mordechai Eliyahu's comment on Kitzur S"A 143:7</ref> | |||
==Having awe for one's parents== | ==Having awe for one's parents== | ||
# One shouldn't stand in the place where one's father usually stands to daven or sit in the place he usually sits at home.<ref>Kitzur S"A 143:2</ref> | # One shouldn't stand in the place where one's father usually stands to daven or sit in the place he usually sits at home.<ref>Kitzur S"A 143:2</ref> | ||
