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# If one's parents ask him to violate some from the Torah or even something that is only rabbanically forbidden, one should not listen to them.<ref>Gemara Bava Metsia 32a, Yevamot 5b, Rambam (Mamrim 6:12). S"A YD 240:15</ref> | # If one's parents ask him to violate some from the Torah or even something that is only rabbanically forbidden, one should not listen to them.<ref>Gemara Bava Metsia 32a, Yevamot 5b, Rambam (Mamrim 6:12). S"A YD 240:15</ref> | ||
# In principle, a man and woman are equally obligated in honoring or being in awe of one's parents. If a woman is married, however, she is exempt from honoring her parents. Yet, if her husband isn't meticulous, she is obligated to honor her parents as much as possible. <ref>Kiddushin 30b, S"A YD 240:16, Shach YD 240:19, Aruch HaShulchan YD 240:38</ref> | # In principle, a man and woman are equally obligated in honoring or being in awe of one's parents. If a woman is married, however, she is exempt from honoring her parents. Yet, if her husband isn't meticulous, she is obligated to honor her parents as much as possible. <ref>Kiddushin 30b, S"A YD 240:16, Shach YD 240:19, Aruch HaShulchan YD 240:38</ref> | ||
==Honoring one's parents== | |||
# Included in [[honoring one's parents]] is feeding, dressing, and helping them walk. When one is doing such an activity, one should do it with a smile. <ref>Kitzur S"A 143:3</ref> | |||
# One must stand before one's mother and father<ref>Kitzur S"A 143:7</ref> unless they forgo this honor.<ref>Rav Mordechai Eliyahu's comment on Kitzur S"A 143:7</ref> | |||
# If one sees one's parent do a sin, one shouldn't say "you sinned" but rather "father, doesn't it say in Torah such and such?" in a question form and the parent will understand and not be embarrassed. <ref>Kitzur S"A 143:10</ref> | |||
# If one's parents tells them to violate a Biblical or even a rabbinic prohibition, one shouldn't listen to one's parent.<ref>Kitzur S"A 143:11</ref> | |||
==Having awe for one's parents== | ==Having awe for one's parents== | ||
# One shouldn't stand in the place where one's father usually stands to daven or sit in the place he usually sits at home.<ref>Kitzur S"A 143:2</ref> | # One shouldn't stand in the place where one's father usually stands to daven or sit in the place he usually sits at home.<ref>Kitzur S"A 143:2</ref> | ||
