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#There is a dispute if a husband can listen to my wife sing when she is a niddah. The same dispute is relevant to singing zemiros Shabbos together.<ref>[https://ph.yhb.org.il/category/טהרת-המשפחה/18-03/ Peninei Halacha (Niddah 3:3)] writes that listening to her sing normally or sing zemiros is permitted, though some are strict.</ref> | |||
#According to those who allow listening to one's wife sing when she's a niddah, it is likewise permitted to hear her play a musical instrument.<ref>Taharat Yosef 3:40</ref> However, those who are strict on listening to her sing would also be strict on listening to her play an instrument if it could lead to endearment.<ref>Shiurei Shevet Halevi 195:6:2</ref> | #According to those who allow listening to one's wife sing when she's a niddah, it is likewise permitted to hear her play a musical instrument.<ref>Taharat Yosef 3:40</ref> However, those who are strict on listening to her sing would also be strict on listening to her play an instrument if it could lead to endearment.<ref>Shiurei Shevet Halevi 195:6:2</ref> | ||
See also [[Listening_to_Women_Sing#Married_Women|Listening to Women Sing: Married Women]]. | |||
==Smelling her Perfume== | ==Smelling her Perfume== | ||
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| Looking at Spouse's Usually Covered Body Parts || style="background-color:#9aff99;" | Permitted || style="background-color:#ffccc9;" | Forbidden<ref>Shulchan Aruch Y.D. 195:7</ref> || N/A | | Looking at Spouse's Usually Covered Body Parts || style="background-color:#9aff99;" | Permitted || style="background-color:#ffccc9;" | Forbidden<ref>Shulchan Aruch Y.D. 195:7</ref> || N/A | ||
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| Pouring Drinks (and Serving Food) for Spouse || style="background-color:#ffccc9;" | Forbidden<ref>Shulchan Aruch Y.D. 195:13, Badei Hashulchan 195:159, Taharat Habayit v. 2 p. 188</ref> || style="background-color:#ffccc9;" | Forbidden || | | Pouring Drinks (and Serving Food) for Spouse || style="background-color:#ffccc9;" | Forbidden<ref>Shulchan Aruch Y.D. 195:13, Badei Hashulchan 195:159, Taharat Habayit v. 2 p. 188</ref> || style="background-color:#ffccc9;" | Forbidden || style="background-color:#9aff99;" | Permitted<ref>Rama 195:10, Shach 195:14. Shach rejects Bach who is strict.</ref> | ||
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| Making Spouse's Bed || style="background-color:#ffccc9;" | Forbidden<ref>Taharat Yosef 3:57</ref> || style="background-color:#ffccc9;" | Forbidden || style="background-color:#9aff99;" | Permitted<ref>Shulchan Aruch Y.D. 195:11</ref> | | Making Spouse's Bed || style="background-color:#ffccc9;" | Forbidden<ref>Taharat Yosef 3:57</ref> || style="background-color:#ffccc9;" | Forbidden || style="background-color:#9aff99;" | Permitted<ref>Shulchan Aruch Y.D. 195:11</ref> | ||
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| Pouring Water upon Spouse || style="background-color:#ffccc9;" | Forbidden<ref>Taharat Yosef 3:61</ref> || style="background-color:#ffccc9;" | Forbidden || Dispute<ref>Shach 195:14 holds that it is forbidden to prepare water for one's spouse's bath, while Taz 195:8 is lenient.</ref> | | Pouring Water upon Spouse || style="background-color:#ffccc9;" | Forbidden<ref>Taharat Yosef 3:61</ref> || style="background-color:#ffccc9;" | Forbidden || style="background-color:#ffffc7;" | Dispute<ref>Shach 195:14 holds that it is forbidden to prepare water for one's spouse's bath, while Taz 195:8 is lenient.</ref> | ||
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==A Niddah Going to Shul and Cemeteries== | ==A Niddah Going to Shul and Cemeteries== | ||
