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#Some say that sending a drink to your wife only applies to wine,<ref>Shulchan Aruch Y.D. 195:13, Taharat Habayit v. 2 p. 191</ref> others extend it to other important drinks.<ref>Badei Hashulchan 195:163</ref> | #Some say that sending a drink to your wife only applies to wine,<ref>Shulchan Aruch Y.D. 195:13, Taharat Habayit v. 2 p. 191</ref> others extend it to other important drinks.<ref>Badei Hashulchan 195:163</ref> | ||
==Summary of Harchakot== | |||
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! Activity !! Wife to/for Husband !! Husband to/for Wife !! Not in Spouse's Presence | |||
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| Eating Spouse's Leftovers || style="background-color:#9aff99;" | Permitted<ref>Rama 195:4, Taz 195:5</ref> || style="background-color:#ffccc9;" | Forbidden || style="background-color:#9aff99;" | Permitted<ref>Rama 195:4</ref> | |||
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| Sitting on the Spouse's Bed || style="background-color:#9aff99;" | Permitted<ref>Taz 195:6</ref> || style="background-color:#ffccc9;" | Forbidden || style="background-color:#ffccc9;" | Forbidden<ref>Shulchan Aruch Y.D. 195:5</ref> | |||
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| Lying on the Spouse's Bed || style="background-color:#ffccc9;" | Forbidden<ref>Taz 195:6</ref> || style="background-color:#ffccc9;" | Forbidden || style="background-color:#ffccc9;" | Forbidden<ref>Shulchan Aruch Y.D. 195:5</ref> | |||
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| Looking at Spouse's Usually Covered Body Parts || style="background-color:#9aff99;" | Permitted || style="background-color:#ffccc9;" | Forbidden<ref>Shulchan Aruch Y.D. 195:7</ref> || N/A | |||
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| Pouring Drinks (and Serving Food) for Spouse || style="background-color:#ffccc9;" | Forbidden<ref>Shulchan Aruch Y.D. 195:13, Badei Hashulchan 195:159, Taharat Habayit v. 2 p. 188</ref> || style="background-color:#ffccc9;" | Forbidden || | |||
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| Making Spouse's Bed || style="background-color:#ffccc9;" | Forbidden<ref>Taharat Yosef 3:57</ref> || style="background-color:#ffccc9;" | Forbidden || style="background-color:#9aff99;" | Permitted<ref>Shulchan Aruch Y.D. 195:11</ref> | |||
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| Pouring Water upon Spouse || style="background-color:#ffccc9;" | Forbidden<ref>Taharat Yosef 3:61</ref> || style="background-color:#ffccc9;" | Forbidden || Dispute<ref>Shach 195:14 holds that it is forbidden to prepare water for one's spouse's bath, while Taz 195:8 is lenient.</ref> | |||
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==A Niddah Going to Shul and Cemeteries== | ==A Niddah Going to Shul and Cemeteries== | ||
