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# A person should consult with his rebbe from yeshiva how often to go out during engagement is considered appropriate.<ref>Beer Yisrael p. 51</ref> | # A person should consult with his rebbe from yeshiva how often to go out during engagement is considered appropriate.<ref>Beer Yisrael p. 51</ref> | ||
==Age for Marriage== | ==Age for Marriage== | ||
# If a person is concerned that getting married will cause him to be caught up with concerns of parnasa and won’t have an ability to learn he can delay getting married until he is 24. <ref>Nitai Gavriel Shiduchim p. 71</ref> | # If a person is concerned that getting married will cause him to be caught up with concerns of parnasa and won’t have an ability to learn he can delay getting married until he is 24.<ref>Nitai Gavriel Shiduchim p. 71</ref> | ||
==Yichud== | ==Yichud== | ||
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* Aruch Hashulchan 695:18 adds that the real issue is that when a man gives a woman a gift it leads to a closeness which is inappropriate. Tzemech Yehuda 3:235:4 agrees. Chashukei Chemed Megillah 4a quotes Rav Elyashiv as holding that if there’s no other choice a man could give mishloach manot to a woman if given in a manner that wouldn’t cause to closeness. | * Aruch Hashulchan 695:18 adds that the real issue is that when a man gives a woman a gift it leads to a closeness which is inappropriate. Tzemech Yehuda 3:235:4 agrees. Chashukei Chemed Megillah 4a quotes Rav Elyashiv as holding that if there’s no other choice a man could give mishloach manot to a woman if given in a manner that wouldn’t cause to closeness. | ||
Betzel Chochma 5:51 writes that the Rama was only concerned about kiddushin. He adds that one doesn’t have to be concerned about inappropriate interactions since one is doing a mitzvah of mishloach manot. Additionally, nowadays we are lenient to greet a woman (Rama EH 21:4) and as such we can be lenient in this regard as well. However, he advises not relying on that unless one’s intent is completely pure.</ref> | Betzel Chochma 5:51 writes that the Rama was only concerned about kiddushin. He adds that one doesn’t have to be concerned about inappropriate interactions since one is doing a mitzvah of mishloach manot. Additionally, nowadays we are lenient to greet a woman (Rama EH 21:4) and as such we can be lenient in this regard as well. However, he advises not relying on that unless one’s intent is completely pure.</ref> | ||
==Date Specific Shaylot== | |||
===Paint Night, Wax sculptures=== | |||
#See Drawing a Pasuk [[Respecting_Holy_Books#Writing_Pesukim]] | |||
#See Drawing a Sun, Moon or Stars [[Drawing_or_Sculpting_Forbidden_Images#Sun.2C_Moon.2C_and_Stars]] | |||
#Making a human sculptures [[Drawing_or_Sculpting_Forbidden_Images#Human_Images]] | |||
===Art Museums=== | |||
# See [[Kippah#Wearing_a_Kippah_in_a_Place_not_Suitable_for_a_Religious_Jew]] | |||
===Movie=== | |||
#See [[Internet,_TV,_Social_Media]] | |||
===Sports Games=== | |||
#See [[Inappropriate Staring at the Opposite Gender]] | |||
===Ice Skating, Archery=== | |||
#See [[Modesty]] | |||
#See [[Inappropriate Staring at the Opposite Gender]] | |||
#Catching her if she falls see [[Negiah]] | |||
===Arcade, Casino, Bingo=== | |||
#Regarding gambling see [[Minhagim_of_Chanukah#Dreidel]] | |||
===Going to the Zoo=== | |||
#Regarding Brachos when seeing certain animals see [[Bracha for an Unusual Creature]]. | |||
#(Does seeing non-kosher animals cause spiritual damage?) | |||
===Scavenger Hunt in Barnes&Nobles=== | |||
#See [[Deceitful Practices#Window Shopping]] | |||
===Hotel Lobby=== | |||
#See [[Marit Ayin]] | |||
==Sources== | ==Sources== | ||
{{Reflist|2}} | {{Reflist|2}} | ||
[[Category:Marriage]] | [[Category:Marriage]] | ||
