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Hafarat Nedarim: Difference between revisions

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→‎Divorced: when either father and or arus hears before/after divorce 234:18-19
(→‎Widowed: nitarsah meah pe'amim, difficult rambam if shama arus rishon. 234:16-17)
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=== Divorced ===
=== Divorced ===
# If an Arusah is divorced and enters Erusin again to the same suitor or a different one, the father and final Arus can jointly revoke her Nedarim.<ref>Shulchan Aruch Yoreh Deah 234:13</ref>
# If an Arusah is divorced and enters Erusin again to the same suitor or a different one, the father and final Arus can jointly revoke her Nedarim.<ref>Shulchan Aruch Yoreh Deah 234:13</ref>
# Unlike a widow, a divorcee's Nedarim are only available to the future Arus and father to revoke together if the previous Arus did not hear of the Neder. If he does, then we're stringent to assume divorce to be like upholding the Neder. Of course, in any case, she must still be a Na'arah and have not reached Nissuin from any marriage, in which case, if the father and later Arus hear of the Neder on the same day, they can together revoke it. Once the father hears it, then the Neder must be revoked by him and the Arus on that day for it to be effective. Therefore, even if she is divorced and reenters Kiddushin a hundred times on that day, the Neder can still be revoked by the father and and final Arus, since the first one did not hear it.<ref>Shulchan Aruch Yoreh Deah 234:18-19</ref>
=== Orphaned ===
=== Orphaned ===
# The joint revoking of an Arusah's Nedarim must be completed while both father and Arus are still alive; hence, if the father dies during Erusin, regardless of both father and husband hearing the Neder and either of the two revoking it, the Hafarah is incomplete and the Neder can never be revoked.<ref>Shulchan Aruch Yoreh Deah 234:15</ref>
# The joint revoking of an Arusah's Nedarim must be completed while both father and Arus are still alive; hence, if the father dies during Erusin, regardless of both father and husband hearing the Neder and either of the two revoking it, the Hafarah is incomplete and the Neder can never be revoked.<ref>Shulchan Aruch Yoreh Deah 234:15</ref>