Bedikot after Marriage: Difference between revisions

# A woman who has a veset may not be strict to do a bedika before or after tashmish.<ref>In Niddah 12a, Rav Yehuda said that a woman should not be strict to do a bedika before tashmish since that will cause her husband to become agitated and will prevent them from having tashmish. Additionally, Rav Huna said a woman should not do a bedika after tashmish again because that will cause her husband to come agitated and will prevent having tashmish again. Accordingly, the Rama 184:1 rules a woman who has a veset may not be strict to do a bedika before or after tashmish. Shulchan Aruch 186:1 writes that a veset with a veset may not do a bedika before tashmish in front of her husband.</ref>

# A woman without a veset according to many authorities a woman should check herself before and after tashmish the first three times. However, many authorities argue that no checks should be done at all. A couple should consult their rabbi as to the proper practice.<ref>