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==When to start saying Selichot==
The month of Elul is a time for personal reflection and preparation for the Yamim Noraim (High Holy Days). It is a time to repent for one's sins, to make amends with others, and to focus on one's relationship with God. There are many practices that are traditionally done during Elul, such as: Selichot (additional supplications each morning), recite L'dovid Hashem Ori, and blow the shofar.
# The Sephardic minhag is to say Selichot from the day after Rosh Chodesh Elul. <Ref> S”A 581:1 writes that one should starting saying Selichot from Rosh Chodesh Elul. Mishna Brurah 581:1 explains that S”A means from Rosh Chodesh and not Rosh Chodesh itself. So writes the Maamer Mordechai (Rav Mordechai Eliyahu) 34:1 as the Sephardic minhag. </ref>
==Selichot==
# There are no Selichot on Shabbat. <Ref> Maamer Mordechai (Rav Mordechai Eliyahu) 34:2 writes that there are no Selichot on Shabbat. </ref>
===When to Start Reciting Selichot===
# The minhag Ashekenaz is to start saying Selichot from the Sunday before Rosh HaShana unless Rosh HaShana falls out on Monday or Tuesday, in which case, Ashkenazim start from two Sundays before Rosh HaShana. <Ref> Rama 581:1 writes that the minhag Ashekenaz is to start saying Selichot from the Sunday before Rosh HaShana unless Rosh HaShana falls out on Monday or Tuesday, in which case, Ashkenazim start from two Sundays before Rosh HaShana. Mishna Brurah 581:6 explains that the reason that the preparation is no less than four days is because some had the custom to fast for ten days prior to Yom Kippur, however, since one can’t fast on Rosh HaShana’s two days, Shabbat Shuvah, and Erev Yom Kippur, one had to begin fasting four days prior to Rosh HaShana (see there for other reasons). </ref>


# The Sephardic minhag is to begin reciting [[Selichot]] from the day after [[Rosh Chodesh]] [[Elul]].<ref>Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 581:1<br>
==When should Selichot be said?==
The Rosh ([[Rosh Hashana]] 4:14) writes that a number of [[Geonim]] had the minhag of saying [[Selichot]] during the [[Aseret Yemei Teshuva]], while other places said them from [[Rosh Chodesh]] [[Elul]] because that is when Moshe was on Har Sinai receiving the second Luchot. These were days of prayer and begging for mercy for the Jewish people, concluding with Yom Kippur as the day of atonement. Tur Orach Chaim 581 notes that there are three different traditions and adds that the Ashkenaz tradition is to begin on the Saturday Night prior to Rosh Hashanah when Rosh HaShanah begins on Thursday or [[Shabbat]]. If it begins on Monday or Tuesday, [[Selichot]] begin on the Sunday prior to that. While the Rambam ([[Teshuva]] 3:4) follows the minhag of the Geonim, Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 581:1 writes that the Sephardic minhag is to begin reciting [[Selichot]] from [[Rosh Chodesh]] [[Elul]]. <br>
# Preferably, Selichot should be said at the end of the night before Olot HaShachar. <Ref> Mishna Brurah’s introduction to 581, Maamer Mordechai (Rav Mordechai Eliyahu) 34:5 write that preferably, Selichot should be said at the end of the night before Olot HaShachar. </ref> However, if one delayed one can say it after Olot HaShachar. <Ref> Maamer Mordechai 34:5. </ref>However, it is permissible to say Selichot earlier in the night as long one one is sure not to start before Chatzot (halachic midnight). <Ref> Kaf HaChaim 581:1,2, and Maamer Mordechai (Rav Mordechai Eliyahu) 34:4 hold that one should only say Selichot after Chatzot and if one had a minhag to say it earlier one should change the minhag. Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, pg 2-3) agrees that it forbidden to say Selichot before Chatzot, which he clearly spells out is 12 halachic hours after midday which is 6 halachic hours after sunrise. </ref>
* Maamar Mordechai (Rav Mordechai Eliyahu) 34:1, Yalkut Yosef Moadim page 9, Chazon Ovadia Yamim Noraim page 1 agree that such is the Sephardic minhag.  
## Some say one may say Selichot according to when Chatzot is in Israel, however majority of halachic authorities disagree. <Ref> Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim beginning) brings two opinions without drawing a conclusion. In the English edition of Yalkut Yosef (vol 14 pg 49 in note 4), the author writes clearly in name of Rav Ovadyah that one may not rely on this leniency and each place must not say Selichot prior to chatzot in that locale. Rav Ovadyah in Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, pg 4) writes clearly that this isn't an acceptable leniency. </ref>
* This is also quoted by the Arizal in Shaar Hakavanot 89:4, Ravyah 542, Machzor Vitri 323, Kol Bo 65. Meiri Chibur Hateshuva Page 207 says this is what should be done, and adds that [[selichot]] is a partial fulfillment of learning the laws of each [[holidays]] 30 days prior.
# Those congregations who aren't able to rise early to say Selichot should nonetheless say Selichot in the morning before Shacharit or even in the afternoon before Mincha. <ref>Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, pg 6-7) </ref>
* Magen Avraham 581:2 explains that Shulchan Aruch means from after [[Rosh Chodesh]] and not on [[Rosh Chodesh]] itself. Mishna Brura 581:1 and Chazon Ovadia (Yamim Noraim pg. 2) agree.  
# On Erev Rosh HaShana one should make an extra effort to get up early to say Selichot before Olot HaShachar. <Ref> Maamer Mordechai 34:5 </ref>
* see also Sefer HaManhig Hilchot [[Rosh Hashana]] 1:25 </ref>
# The Ashkenazic custom is to start reciting [[Selichot]] from the Sunday before [[Rosh HaShana]], unless [[Rosh HaShana]] falls out on Monday or Tuesday, in which case, Ashkenazim start from two Sundays before [[Rosh HaShana]].<ref>See previous footnote. Rama Orach Chaim 581:1 writes that the minhag Ashekenaz is to start saying [[Selichot]] from the Sunday before [[Rosh HaShana]] unless [[Rosh HaShana]] falls out on Monday or Tuesday, in which case, Ashkenazim start from two Sundays before [[Rosh HaShana]]. Mishna Brurah 581:6 explains that the reason that the preparation is no less than four days is because some had the custom to fast for ten days prior to [[Yom Kippur]], however, since one can’t fast on the two days of Rosh Hashana, [[Shabbat]] Shuvah, or Erev [[Yom Kippur]], one had to begin fasting four days prior to [[Rosh HaShana]] (see there for other reasons). </ref>
# There are no [[Selichot]] on [[Shabbat]].<ref>Maamar Mordechai (Rav Mordechai Eliyahu) 34:2 writes that there are no [[Selichot]] on [[Shabbat]]. </ref>


===Who is Obligated in Selichot===
==Order of Selichot==
====Women====
# One must say Brachot HaTorah before saying Selichot because there are a number of pesukim in Selichot. <ref>Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, pg 5) </ref>
# Women are not obligated to recite Selichot, as it is only a [[Minhag]]. If they choose to, they must recite Birkot HaTorah first (especially if they are Sephardi).<ref>Halichot Beitah 7:2, Yalkut Yosef (Otzar Dinim leIshah ulaBat 7:6), Mekadesh Yisrael (Yamim Noraim, Selichot 59), Nitei Gavriel (Hilchot Rosh HaShana 10:16*), Piskei Shlomo (vol. 4 page 137). See Rav Avraham Yosef's opening comments [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GL7pjgYQhLA here].</ref>
# The Selichot should be said with proper intent (Kavanah), slowly, and with humility and especially during the thirteen attributes (Yud Gimmel Middot). <ref>Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, pg 20) </ref>
# In some European communities, it was common for women to attend Selichot,<ref>See Magen Avraham 88:3</ref> and, nowadays, some Ashkenazi women try to attend Selichot in the synagogue on the first night or Erev [[Rosh HaShana]] and Erev [[Yom Kippur]].<ref>Nitei Gavriel (Hilchot Rosh HaShana 10:16*), Mekadesh Yisrael (Yamim Noraim, Selichot 59), [https://www.hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=53004&st=&pgnum=63 Ratz KaTzvi (BeMoadei HaShana vol. 1 1:3:7 page ח)]. See Aderet Tiferet (vol. 7 page 115) about Sephardi ladies in his community.</ref>
====Children====
#One should try to initiate his sons in the [[Minhag]] of reciting Selichot but without causing them distress. Since these are auspicious days for prayer, one should at least train them to recite the prayers themselves, if not early in the morning/late at night. Some say Ashkenazim should ensure to bring them on the first night in any case.<ref>Mekadesh Yisrael (Yamim Noraim, Selichot 60)</ref>
====Individuals Who Have Trouble Waking Up for Selichot====
# A Torah scholar (Talmid Chacham) who isn't able to wake up for [[Selichot]] because he is learning in the early hours of the morning and going to [[Selichot]] would ruin his schedule, should try to go to [[Selichot]] during the Aseret Yemei Teshuva (Ten days of Repentance) and some days of [[Elul]].<ref>Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim pg. 8-10), Yalkut Yosef Moadim page 11, Shu"t Yechave Daat 3:44. Although the Chida 581:6 writes that Selichot takes precedence over Talmud Torah, that refers to someone who is awake already and would just be giving up a small amount of learning to recite Selichot. But if it will ruin his learning routine and cause him to be tired throughout the day, then we would prefer that he continue to learn properly. (see also Sh"t Yabia Omer OC 2:28:8-9, Sh"t Yabia Omer YD 4:19, for a similar discussion). <br>
Sefer Seder Hayom page 57 warns that a person shouldn't neglect to recite [[selichot]] with the argument that his time is better spent learning rather than praying. Mateh Ephraim 581:11 also stresses a similar idea. The Rama in Darkei Moshe 581:2 quotes the Haghot Ashri saying that any talmid chacham should make sure to recite [[selichot]] </ref> If he is awake after [[Chatzot]] it's preferable to say some paragraphs of [[Selichot]] and [[Tikkun Chatzot]]<ref> Chazon Ovadia (Yamim Noraim pg. 10) </ref> (which takes precedence over [[Selichot]]).<ref> Chazon Ovadia (Yamim Noraim pg. 10), Ben Ish Chai Vayishlach Year 1 Halacha 9 </ref>  
# Teachers who teach in the morning and getting up early for [[Selichot]] would prevent them from doing their job well should only get up for [[Selichot]] some days in [[Elul]] and during the [[Aseret Yimei Teshuva]]. The same is true for hired workers and officials (who would have their work impacted negatively by rising early). Nonetheless, it's preferable to at least say [[Selichot]] to oneself before [[Shacharit]] or [[Mincha]].<ref>Chacham Ovadia Yosef (Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim pg. 10) and Yabia Omer OC 2:28:8) based on Rama Yoreh Deah 245:17</ref>
# One should make an effort to say [[Selichot]] with fervor and strength and not fall asleep during [[davening]] until the very end. This is especially the case for someone wearing [[Tefillin]] for whom it is forbidden to sleep. It's better not to wake up early for [[Selichot]] if it will end up ruining the [[prayers]] and and cause one to fall asleep with [[Tefillin]].<ref>Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, pg 10-11), Yalkut Yosef Moadim pg. 12, Chida in Moreh Bietzbah 245, Kaf Hachaim Palagi 11:23  </ref>


===When Should Selichot be Said?===
==Individuals who can't wake up for Selichot==
====The Earliest Time for Selichot====
# A Torah scholar (Talmid Chacham) who aren't able to wake up for Selichot because they are learning in the early hours of the morning and by going to Selichot it will ruin his schedule he should try to go to Selichot during the Aseret Yamei Teshuva (Ten days of Repentance) and some days of Elul. However, if he is up passed Chatzot it's preferable to say some paragraphs of Selichot and Tikkun Chatzot (which takes precedence over Selichot). <ref>Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, pg 8-10) </ref>
# Most authorities say that Selichot should not be recited at night prior to Chatzot Layla, halachic midnight.<ref> The Magen Avraham 565:5 quotes the Arizal as saying that one should not say [[Selichot]], particularly the 13 [[middot]] of rachamim, prior to [[Chatzot]] at night. Shaare Teshuva 581:1 quoting Birkei Yosef (Orach Chaim 581:1) argue that it is inappropriate according to Kabbalah for one to recite Selichot prior to Chatzot Laylah, as the first half of the night is connected to judgement, not mercy. Therefore, one who finds himself in a shul where [[Selichot]] are being recited before midnight should not recite the yud gimmel [[middot]] along with the congregation. Instead, he should remain silent or recite Tehillim. <br>
# Teachers who teach in the morning and getting up early for Selichot would prevent them fro mdoing their job well should only get up for Selichot some days in Elul and during the Aseret Yamei Teshuva. The same is true for hired workers and officials (who would have thier work impacted by rising early). Nonetheless, it's preferable to at least say Selichot to oneself before Shacharit or Mincha. <ref>Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, pg 10) </ref>
* Similarly, [http://www.hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=1167&st=&pgnum=68 Rav Moshe Zachuto in Shu"t Ramaz 30] writes that it is important to only say selichot after chatzot. The Birkei Yosef 581:1, Mishna Brurah 565:12, Kaf HaChaim Orach Chaim 581:1,2, Kaf Hachaim Palacci 16:13, Chacham Ovadia Yosef (Yechave Daat 1:46; Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, pg 2-3); Yalkut Yosef, Moadim page 9), and Ma'amar Mordechai (Rav Mordechai Eliyahu) 34:4 agree.<br>
# One should make an effort to say Selichot with fervor and strength and not fall asleep during davening until the very end. This is especcailly the case for someone wearing Tefillin for whom it is forbidden to sleep. It's better not to wake up early for Selichot if it will end up ruining the prayers and and cause one to fall asleep with Tefillin. <ref>Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, pg 10-11) </ref>
While Chacham Ovadia Yosef (Chazon Ovadia Yamim Noraim pg. 6-7) cites some opinions that one may say Selichot according to when Chatzot is in Israel, he concludes clearly that this is not an acceptable leniency </ref> However, some communities, such as the Spanish-Portuguese of London and Amsterdam, recited a condensed version of Selichot after Arvit before Kaddish Titkabal and some argue in favor of this custom<ref>See Keter Shem Tov vol. 5 page 13 who notes how the custom has no source in early Poskim and seems to just be a means of keeping the custom of Selichot alive for those whose inability to attend early in the morning will result in the obliteration of the custom. At the same time, Rav Gaguine notes, the communities in London and Amsterdam have no hand in Kabbalah, which is the source of the insistence not to recite Selichot before chatzot, in the first place. Therefore, there is no reason for them to change their practice due to other Poskim's Kabbalistic concerns. In those locales, it is anyway too cold to get up early in the morning, unlike Spain, so they also do Selichot at 7:00AM. Magen Avot (Orach Chaim fn. 437) refers to Darchei David who finds additional room for leniency to uphold the Spanish-Portuguese custom to do Selichot at night after Arvit.</ref>  
# Rav Moshe Feinstein writes that in extenuating circumstances one can say selichot before [[Chatzot]]. <ref>Rav Moshe Feinstein (Igrot Moshe O.C. 2:105) writes that although prior to [[Chatzot]] is not the ideal time, there is no prohibition to say [[Selichot]] at such a time, and as a Hora’at Sha’ah, one may be lenient. Saying them at this time is better than not saying them at all. His proof is Shulchan Aruch O.C. 1:2 who rules that praying at the end of the first third of the night is considered a time of mercy. Rav Moshe warns though that the congregation should be warned that this is only being done under the circumstances and next year we will do it at the proper time. <br>
* [http://www.torah.org/advanced/weekly-halacha/5757/nitzavim.html Rav Doniel Neustadt] says this shouldn't be relied upon on a consistent basis.
* see also [https://www.yutorah.org/lectures/lecture.cfm/933010/rabbi-isaac-rice/the-best-time-for-selichos-the-worst-time-for-selichos/ Rabbi Isaac Rice]</ref>
# On Erev Rosh HaShana one should make an extra effort to get up early to say Selichot before [[Olot HaShachar]].<ref>Ma'amar Mordechai 34:5 </ref>
# Although one shouldn't say the Selichot before [[chatzot]] of the night, one is permitted to listen to them via a recording in order to practice the words and the tunes.<ref>Chazon Ovadia Yamim Noraim page 20. See also page 21 where he writes that if one hears the 13 [[middot]] or [[kaddish]] via a live feed, he should answer, but if it isn't live then he doesn't answer. </ref>


====The Latest Time for Selichot====
==Selichot without a minyan==
# Preferably, [[Selichot]] should be said at the end of the night before [[Olot HaShachar]],<ref>Mishna Brurah (Introduction to 581), Maamar Mordechai (Rav Mordechai Eliyahu) 34:5 write that preferably, [[Selichot]] should be said at the end of the night before [[Olot HaShachar]]. [https://www.hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=14215&pgnum=10 Imrei Noam of Gra on Brachot 3a s.v. yesh omrim] interprets the gemara that the shifts of the night (heb. אשומורות הלילה; trans. ''ashmurot haleyla'') do not end at olot like the Tosfot and Magen Avraham understood. Rather they end at Netz like the Rambam. See Rav Moshe Feinstein (2:105) who relates the time of selichot to the shifts of the night.</ref> but if one delayed one can say it after [[Olot HaShachar]].<ref>Ma'amar Mordechai 34:5.</ref> Those who are unable to rise early to say [[Selichot]], should nonetheless say [[Selichot]], either in the morning before [[Shacharit]] or even in the afternoon before [[Mincha]]. The morning is better than the afternoon<ref>Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, pg 6-7), Yalkut Yosef Moadim page 10, Yechave Daat 1:46. See [https://www.yutorah.org/lectures/lecture.cfm/966109/rabbi-chaim-jachter/selihot-before-minha/ Rabbi Chaim Jachter]</ref>
# An individual may say the Selichot that don’t include the thirteen attributes, or aren’t written in Aramaic. <ref> Mishna Brurah 581:4, Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, pg 11) </ref>
#The minhag is to say selichot before Shacharit even when it is after Olot even though Tadir would demand that it is said afterwards.<ref>Mekor Neeman 1:520 explains that we say selichot first so that it is as close to Olot as possible. Rivevot Efraim 8:234:6 notes that seemingly we should say shacharit first but such is the minhag.</ref>  
# If there’s not a minyan when the tzibbur said Ashrei, they should wait to have a minyan to say Kaddish and when they get a minyan they first say 3 pesukim before reciting Kaddish. <ref>Mishna Brurah 581:4 quoting the Eliyah Rabba </ref>  
#If someone missed selichot and could either daven with a minyan or say selichot first and then daven by himself he should daven with the minyan and then say selichot by himself.<ref>Rivevot Efraim 8:234:6</ref>
# If there was a minyan in the beginning and then some people left, they can continue and even say Kaddish after Selichot. <Ref>Mishna Brurah 581:4 </ref>


===Order of Selichot===
==Shliach Tzibbur==
# According to most poskim, one must say [[Brachot HaTorah]] before saying [[Selichot]] because there are a number of pesukim in [[Selichot]].<ref>Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, pg 5) and [http://halachayomit.co.il/en/default.aspx?HalachaID=5095 Halachayomit]<br>
# Any Jew is fit for being a Shliach Tzibbur as long as the congregation accepts him. <Ref> Rama 581:1 </ref>
Shulchan Aruch 46:9 writes that birkot hatorah should be said before reciting any pesukim, even as a form of prayer and not learning. He adds that some say that it would not be necessary to say birkot hatorah if you are just reciting the pesukim as a form of prayer. He concludes that it is proper to be strict. The Rama writes that the common practice is to be lenient like the Maharil 150:9 that if you are only reciting the pesukim as a prayer, you need not recite birkot hatorah. The Rambam in Shu"t Peor Hador 104 holds that you must and therefore, Chacham Ovadia (Chazon Ovadia Yamim Noraim pg. 5) writes that you should. Birkei Yosef 46:14 and Mishna Brurah 46:27 agree. <br>
# Preferably, the congregation should carefully choose a proper Shliach Tzibbur who is married, thirty years old, and the more he is learned and practices good deeds the better. <Ref> Rama 581:1 </ref> However, someone who is learned and Yireh Shamayim is preferred over someone who lacks these qualities but fits the requirements of being married and thirty years old. <Ref> Mishna Brurah 581:13 </ref>
Aruch Hashulchan 46:14 says this isn't necessary based on the Rama The opinion of the Rama is based on the Maharil 150:9. Nitai Gavriel (Rosh Hashana ch. 10, fnt. 1) advises saying birchos hatorah before selichos unless one is in a rush in which case one can rely on those who say you don’t need to say it before selichos. <br>
See [[Birchot_HaTorah#What_Type_of_Learning_Requires_Birchot_HaTorah.3F|What Type of Learning Requires Birchot HaTorah]]</ref>
# If one doesn't have sufficient time to say all of [[Selichot]] because the time for [[Tefillah]] has arrived, one should skip "Im Afes Rovah Haken", "Bezochri Al Mishkavi", "Lemitvadeh Chatotav", and "Aylecha Hashem Nasati Aynay", according to the need.<ref>Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, p. 33)</ref>


====Laws of 13 Middot====
==Talit==
# The [[Selichot]] should be said with proper intent (Kavanah), slowly, and with humility, especially when one is reciting the Yud Gimmel [[Middot]] HaRachamim.<ref>Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, pg 20) </ref>
# The Shliach Tzibbur should wear a Talit during Selichot, however, he shouldn’t make a Bracha if he puts it on at night before Olot HaShachar and to remove himself from controversy he should borrow a Talit from a friend (and not use a public Talit) and have intent that one is not acquiring the Talit it but only using for respect of the congregation. <Ref> Mishna Brurah 581:6 writes that the Levush says that the Shliach Tzibbur should wear a Talit during Selichot but not make a Bracha since there’s a dispute if one can fulfill Tzitzit at night. However, the Taz argues that one shouldn’t enter himself into a dispute (whether to make a Bracha) and so one should rather borrow a Talit from a friend and have Kavana not to acquire it but to use it for respect. </ref>
# One should say the words "Vaya'avor Hashem Al Panav" together with the Shaliach Tzibbur quietly and then say the Yud Gimmel [[Middot]] HaRachamim aloud.<ref>Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, pg 32) based on the Arizal </ref>
# If one wear Tzitzit earlier than Olot HaShachar (for example, for Selichot) and then after Olot HaShachar (and preferably after MeSheyakir) puts on a Talit, one should only make one Bracha on Tzitzit and Talit even if one puts on Tzitzit a long time before the Talit. <Ref> Mishna Brurah 8:24 writes that for sure one should make the Bracha of Talit and cover the Tzitzit rather than make a Bracha on Tzitzit and then on Talit. Even if there will be a long time between putting on the Tzitzit and wearing the Talit, one should still say only one Bracha on the Talit because there are many concerns about making the Bracha on the Tzitzit (it may not be split on the sides a majority, it may not fit the proper Shuir, or one may have slept in the Tzitzit). [this is also brought in Yalkut Yosef (Tzitzit pg 294, Kitzur S”A 16:2).]  </ref>
# One should be careful to pause in between the two names of Hashem in the Yud Gimmel [[Middot]] HaRachamim.<ref>Kaf Hachaim 131:20, Ben Ish Chai Parashat Ki Tisa Halacha 11, Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, p. 32), Yalkut Yosef (Moadim p. 14, 5748 edition) </ref>
# A bachur who doesn’t wear a Talit should be careful to make the Bracha on Tzitzit right after Olot HaShachar after feeling the Tzitzit. <Ref> Minchat Shlomo 4:1:3 writes that regarding Selichot a bachur who doesn’t wear a Talit should be careful to make the Bracha on Tzitzit right after Olot after feeling the Tzitzit. This is based on the Rama 18:3 who writes that if one put on a Talit Katan before Olot HaShachar, then, at Olot one should feel the strings of the Tzitzit and make a Bracha. </ref> However, if someone who slept in the Tzitzit all night, one can not make a Bracha on that pair of tzitzit in the morning (nor should he remove the Tzitzit so as to make a hefsek in order to require a Bracha).<ref>Mishna Brurah 8:42 </ref>
# One should bow slightly when saying "Hashem, Hashem" in the Yud Gimmel [[Middot]] HaRachamim.<ref>Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim pg. 32). Ben Ish Chai Parashat Ki Tisa Halacha 10 says that one should bow at the beginning of Vayaavor and straighten when one reaches the name of Hashem </ref>
# It is not necessary to raise one's feet as one does during Kedusha when reciting the words Hashem, Hashem.<ref>Ben Ish Chai Parashat Ki Tisa Halacha 10 writes that he found no such a source for such a practice but writes that he does it anyway because it doesn't hurt. Chazon Ovadia pg. 33 says this isn't necessary.</ref>
# One should pause between "Beshem" and "Hashem" in the Yud Gimmel Middot.<ref>Magen Avraham 565:5, Eliya Rabba 581:9, Mishna Brurah 581:4</ref>
# When saying the Yud Gimmel [[Middot]] HaRachamim one shouldn't count the [[Middot]] on one's fingers because there is a dispute as to which [[Middot]] are counted as the 13.<ref>Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, p. 33), Yalkut Yosef [[tefilla]] volume 2 page 399. </ref>
# Regarding the recitation of the 13 Middot without a minyan, see below [[Chodesh_Elul#Selichot_Without_a_Minyan|Selichot Without a Minyan]]


====On Days with no Tachanun====
==LeDavid Hashem Ori==
There are a number of situations where one would say Selichot while omitting the Vidui/[[Tachanun]] found at the end:
# The Minhag Ashkenaz is to say LeDavid Hashem Ori once in the morning and once in the evening from Rosh Chodesh Elul until and including Shemini Aseret (and in Israel until and including Hoshana Rabba). LeDavid Hashem Ori should be said after Shacharit (after Shir Shel Yom). On days when there’s Mussaf, LeDavid Hashem Ori is said before Ein Chamocha. On Rosh Chodesh, Barchei Nafsei is said before LeDavid Hashem Ori. <Ref> Mishna Brurah 581:2 says that the Minhag Ashkenaz is to say LeDavid Hashem Ori after Shacharit from Rosh Chodesh Elul until and including Shemini Aseret. LeDavid Hashem Ori should be said after Shir Shel Yom. On days when there’s Mussaf, LeDavid Hashem Ori is said before Ein Chamocha. On Rosh Chodesh, Barchei Nafsei is said before LeDavid Hashem Ori. Sh”t Shevet HaLevi 10:67 and Chazon Ovadyah (pg 24) writes that in Israel the minhag is to say it until and including Hoshana Rabba. </ref>
# If there is a Chatan amongst those in the minyan. <ref>Shu"t P'nei Meivin Yoreh De'ah Siman 319, Shu"t K'tzeh HaMateh Siman 602 S"K 22.</ref>
# For Spehardim it’s also proper to say LeDavid Hashem Ori after Shacharit. <Ref> Rav Ovadyah (Chazon Ovadyah pg 24) writes that even for sephardim it’s proper to say LeDavid Hashem after shacharit. </ref>
# If there is a father making a [[Brit Milah]] for his son, or a Sandek/Mohel is present the morning of a Brit and the minyan is saying Tachanun of Selichot after [[Alot HaShachar]]<ref>As is the opinion of Rabbi Mordechai Willig. see [https://www.yutorah.org/lectures/lecture.cfm/906830/rabbi-aryeh-lebowitz/ten-minute-halacha-omitting-tachanun-in-selichos-when-there-is-a-bris-in-shul/ Rabbi Aryeh Lebowitz]  See minute 15-16.</ref> or sunrise<ref>As is the opinion of Rav Herschel Schachter see [https://www.yutorah.org/lectures/lecture.cfm/906830/rabbi-aryeh-lebowitz/ten-minute-halacha-omitting-tachanun-in-selichos-when-there-is-a-bris-in-shul/ Rabbi Aryeh Lebowitz] minutes 13-14.</ref>.
# Ashkenazim say LeDavid Hashem Ori after Mariv, however, some say it after mincha. <Ref> Mateh Efraim 551:6 writes that LeDavid Hashem Ori in the evening should be said after Mincha. So rules Mishna Brurah 581:2. However, Elef HaMagen 581:10 holds that LeDavid Hashem Ori should be said after Mariv. Shalmei Moed (pg 21) in name of Rav Shlomo Zalman writes that one should follow the minhag of the Tzibbur one is praying with. Shalmei Moed (pg 21) says that the minhag Ashkenaz is to say LeDavid Hashem Ori after Mariv (such is how the Artscroll Siddur has it). </ref>
# If one is reciting Selichot in the house of an [[Avelut|Avel]] during [[Shiva]]. <ref>Taz Orach Chaim Siman 133, Pri Megadim Siman 133:47 Siman Katan 9.</ref> Others state this is only true for Shacharit and not Selichot, which is not said on a regular basis and therefore, only the Avel himself should omit Tachanun.<ref>Shu"t Mahar"i Asad, Yoreh De'ah Siman 353.</ref><ref>The Elef HaMagen (Siman Katan 44) also suggests that the minyan should relocate to an adjacent house, where no one previously passed way, and can say Tachanun/Vidui as usual there. </ref> 
 
====Questions about the Text====
The [http://www.daat.ac.il/daat/sidurim/mizrah/slihot/slihot.htm text of Sephardic Selichot on daat.ac.il] and [https://he.wikisource.org/wiki/%D7%A1%D7%9C%D7%99%D7%97%D7%95%D7%AA_%D7%9C%D7%99%D7%9E%D7%99_%D7%94%D7%AA%D7%A9%D7%95%D7%91%D7%94 text of Ashkenazic Selichot on wikisource.org].
 
======Sepharadim======
# The proper text is עֲנֵנוּ אֱלָהָא דְמֵאִיר עֲנֵנוּ and not אלקא דרבי מאיר.<ref> Chacham Ovadia Yosef (in Chazon Ovadia (Yamim Noraim) pg. 17 and Halichot Olam 8: pg 53), Rav Chaim Palagi (Shu"t Lev Chaim 2:160), Sdei Chemed Maarechet Eretz Yisrael: 6 </ref>
# Sometimes, in the paragraph of אָתָאנוּ לְחַלּוֹת פָּנֶיךָ people mispronounce the words כַּפָּרָה and בַּצָּרָה to fit the tune by emphasizing the wrong syllable. It is proper to avoid doing so.<ref>Chazon Ovadia (Yamim Noraim ) pg. 18 </ref>
 
===Selichot Without a Minyan===
# If one is praying without a minyan, he should not say the thirteen attributes as a prayer, <ref> Rashba Teshuva 1:211 writes that the 13 middot of Rachamim cannot be said without a minyan since they are considered a devar shebekedusha. This is codified by the Shulchan Aruch O.C. 565:5, Mishna Brurah 581:4, Kitzur Shulchan Aruch 128:9 and Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, pg 11). see also [http://halachayomit.co.il/en/default.aspx?HalachaID=2135 Halachayomit]<br>
* On the other hand, see Darkei Moshe O.C. 565:4 where he cites the opinion of the Sefer Haminhagim that even an individual can recite them. </ref> but one can read the Yud Gimmel middot (13 attributes) with the cantillation as if he is simply reading the torah.<ref>Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 565:5 based on Shu"t Harashba 1:211, Chacham Ovadia Yosef (Shu"t Yechave Daat 1:47 and Chazon Ovadia Yamim Noraim 27), Yalkut Yosef Tefilla 2: page 131 [[http://halachayomit.co.il/EnglishDefault.asp?HalachaID=2135 Halacha Yomit]], Chida in Machazik Beracha 131:6, Ben Ish Chai (Shanah Aleph, Parashat Ki Tisa Halacha 9), Kitzur Shulchan Aruch 128:9 <br>
* Iggerot Moshe YD 3:21 allows them to be recited without a [[minyan]] as long you use any melody other than the one used for [[prayer]] and doesn't require that it be the same cantillation as the torah.<br>
* see also [https://www.yutorah.org/lectures/lecture.cfm/963227/rabbi-aryeh-lebowitz/ten-minute-halacha-saying-13-middos-harachamim-b-yechidus/ Rabbi Aryeh Lebowitz] </ref> In such a scenario one can conclude with the word ונקה, even though that is technically in the middle of the actual pasuk in the Torah.<ref> Chazon Ovadia Yamim Noraim pg. 30 </ref> Others argue that it should be omitted entirely.<Ref>Taz 565:5. This is the practice of [https://shulchanaruchharav.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/13-attributes-Saying-with-Taamim-without-Minyan-Website.pdf| Chabad]. </ref>
# Without a [[minyan]], one cannot recite the paragraphs that are in Aramaic (such as רַחֲמָנָא אִדְכַּר לָן..., דְּעָנֵי לַעֲנִיֵּי. עֲנֵינָן..., מַחֵי וּמַסֵּי.<ref>Eliya Rabba 581:9 writes that we do not recite the prayers that are in Aramaic without a Minyan because the angels do not understand Aramaic (see Gemara Shabbat 12b). Mateh Efraim 581:21, Yabia Omer 10:footnotes to Rav Pealim OC 3:41, Kitzur Shulchan Aruch 128:9, Mishna Brura 581:4, Chazon Ovadia (Yamim Noraim pg. 11) and [http://halachayomit.co.il/en/default.aspx?HalachaID=2135 Halachayomit]all agree <br>
On the other hand, Rav Mordechai Lebhar writes (Magen Avot, Orach Chaim 581:1) that in Morocco and Djerba the Aramaic portions were not skipped; however, Amen was said instead of "Bedil Vayaavor."</ref>
# Some say that an individual can say the paragraph of "Kel Melech" even though it says "Zechor Lanu Hayom..." in the plural.<ref>Yalkut Yosef Moadim page 13, Chazon Ovadia Yamim Noraim page 30, Kaf Hachaim 581:26 </ref> Others recommend skipping it.<ref> Kitzur Shulchan Aruch 128:9, Mateh Ephraim 581:21 </ref>
# If there was no [[minyan]] when the tzibbur recited Ashrei, they should wait to have a [[minyan]] to recite [[Kaddish]] and when they get a [[minyan]] they first say three pesukim before reciting [[Kaddish]].<ref>Mishna Brurah 581:4 quoting the Eliyah Rabba </ref>
# If there was a [[minyan]] in the beginning and then some people left, they can continue and even say [[Kaddish]] after [[Selichot]].<ref>Mishna Brurah 581:4. Chazon Ovadia Yamim Noraim page 23 says not to say the [[kaddish]] titkabal at the conclusion of [[selichot]] if you no longer have ten people. </ref>
# If one hears the Yud Gimmel [[Middot]] or [[Kaddish]] on a live feed via radio or video, he can answer. If it is recorded, he cannot answer.<ref>Chazon Ovadia Yamim Noraim page 21 </ref> see [[Brachot_Through_a_Microphone|Brachot Through a Microphone]]
 
===Shliach Tzibbur for Selichot===
# Any Jew is fit for being a Shliach Tzibbur as long as the congregation accepts him.<ref>Rama 581:1 </ref>
# Preferably, the congregation should carefully choose a proper Shliach Tzibbur who is married and is thirty years old. He should be learned and one who practices good deeds.<ref>Rama 581:1 </ref> However, someone who is learned and Yireh Shamayim is preferred over someone who lacks these qualities but fits the requirements of being married and thirty years old.<ref>Mishna Brurah 581:13 </ref>
# The minhag has become to permit paying the shaliach tzibbur and the baal tokea for the yamim noraim since it is for a mitzvah.<ref>Yalkut Yosef Moadim page 19, Chazon Ovadia Yamim Noraim page 39 </ref>
 
===Wearing [[Tallit]] for Selichot===
# The Shliach Tzibbur should wear a [[Tallit]] during [[Selichot]]. However, he shouldn’t make a Bracha if he puts it on at night before [[Olot HaShachar]] and to remove himself from controversy he should borrow a [[Tallit]] from a friend (and not use a public [[Tallit]]) and have intent that one is not acquiring the [[Tallit]] it but only using for respect of the congregation.<ref>Maharil Hilchot Yamim Noraim 4 says there is a custom that the shliach tzibbur should wear a Tallit even at night for [[selichot]] since the gemara in rosh hashana 17 says that Hashem wrapped himself in [[tzitzit]] like a shliach tzibbur to recite the yud gimmel [[middot]]. Mishna Brurah 581:6 writes that the Levush says that the Shliach Tzibbur should wear a [[Tallit]] during [[Selichot]] but not make a Bracha since there’s a dispute if one can fulfill [[Tzitzit]] at night. However, the Taz 581:2 argues that one shouldn’t enter himself into a dispute (whether to make a Bracha) and so one should rather borrow a [[Tallit]] from a friend and have Kavana not to acquire it but to use it for respect. see Mikraei Kodesh by Rav Tzvi [[Pesach]] Frank Yamim Noraim [[Siman 1]] for the discussion of why  the Taz suggests borrowing a friend's Tallit rather than the shuls. </ref>
# If one wears [[Tzitzit]] earlier than [[Olot HaShachar]] (for example, for [[Selichot]]) and then after [[Olot HaShachar]] (and preferably after [[MeSheyakir]]) puts on a [[Tallit]], one should only make one Bracha on [[Tzitzit]] and [[Tallit]] even if one puts on [[Tzitzit]] a long time before the [[Tallit]].<ref>Mishna Brurah 8:24 writes that for sure one should make the Bracha of [[Tallit]] and cover the [[Tzitzit]] rather than make a Bracha on [[Tzitzit]] and then on [[Tallit]]. Even if there will be a long time between putting on the [[Tzitzit]] and wearing the [[Tallit]], one should still say only one Bracha on the [[Tallit]] because there are many concerns about making the Bracha on the [[Tzitzit]] (it may not be split on the sides a majority, it may not fit the proper Shuir, or one may have slept in the [[Tzitzit]]). [this is also brought in Yalkut Yosef ([[Tzitzit]] pg 294, Kitzur Shulchan Aruch 16:2).]  </ref>
# A bachur who doesn’t wear a [[Tallit]] should be careful to make the Bracha on [[Tzitzit]] right after [[Olot HaShachar]] after feeling the [[Tzitzit]].<ref>Minchat Shlomo 4:1:3 writes that regarding [[Selichot]] a bachur who doesn’t wear a [[Tallit]] should be careful to make the Bracha on [[Tzitzit]] right after Olot after feeling the [[Tzitzit]]. This is based on the Rama 18:3 who writes that if one put on a [[Tallit]] Katan before [[Olot HaShachar]], then, at Olot one should feel the strings of the [[Tzitzit]] and make a Bracha. </ref> However, if someone who slept in the [[Tzitzit]] all night, one can not make a Bracha on that pair of [[tzitzit]] in the morning (nor should he remove the [[Tzitzit]] so as to make a [[hefsek]] in order to require a Bracha).<ref>Mishna Brurah 8:42 </ref>
 
===Selichot With a Minyan that Uses a Different Nusach===
# Some say one may not recite Selichot of a different tradition instead of his own, such as Ashkenazim reciting Selichot with Sephardim and vice versa, as we are all obligated to preserve the traditions of our families/communities. However, if one personally finds the other community's version to be inspirational, he may join their Minyan on condition that he also recites the Selichot of his own traditoin, as well.<ref>Teshuvot Avigdor HaLevi (Nebenzal) OC page 406, 581:4. The footnotes ad loc. note how Rav Yaakov Ariel permits it. Rav Shlomo Aviner (Piskei Shlomo vol. 1 page 261 contends that Avodat Hashem is about Hashem ("havayah") not experiences ("chavaya").
Rav Shalom Meshash (Shemesh uMagen vol. 4 Orach Chaim 72:1) also rules that one must recite the Nusach of his community, even if he, for example, is a Sephardi student in an Ashkenazi yeshiva. Rav Mordechai Lebhar (Magen Avot, Orach Chaim 581:1) questions why this is so, since it's not part of the official seder hatefillah and is just Tefillot and Bakashot to Hashem. As long as it increases one's Kavanna, what could be wrong, he asks. Rav Yaakov Ariel (Halacha Beyamenu page 310, "[https://www.toraland.org.il/%D7%A7%D7%98%D7%9C%D7%95%D7%92-%D7%A1%D7%A4%D7%A8%D7%99-%D7%94%D7%A8%D7%91/%D7%94%D7%9C%D7%9B%D7%94-%D7%91%D7%99%D7%9E%D7%99%D7%A0%D7%95/%D7%A9%D7%A2%D7%A8-%D7%93-%D7%97%D7%91%D7%A8%D7%94-%D7%95%D7%9E%D7%93%D7%99%D7%A0%D7%94/%D7%94%D7%94%D7%9C%D7%9B%D7%94-%D7%95%D7%94%D7%A6%D7%99%D7%95%D7%A0%D7%95%D7%AA-%D7%94%D7%93%D7%AA%D7%99%D7%AA/ ההלכה והציונות הדתית דיבור המתחיל שמרנות עדתית]") writes similarly that in an education institution it's an opportunity to introduce and familiarize the students with each other's traditions. Things like Selichot and Zemirot, which are not institutions of the Anshei Kenesset HaGedolah, should not fall behind the limits of Ashkenazi and Sepharadi traditions barring each community from participating in each other's services. Although, if joining the Sefaradim would entail separating oneself from the congregation, Rav Ariel discourages it in [https://www.toraland.org.il/%D7%A9%D7%90%D7%9C%D7%95%D7%AA-%D7%95%D7%AA%D7%A9%D7%95%D7%91%D7%95%D7%AA/%D7%91%D7%9E%D7%A2%D7%92%D7%9C-%D7%94%D7%A9%D7%A0%D7%94/%D7%A0%D7%95%D7%A9%D7%90%D7%99%D7%9D-%D7%A0%D7%95%D7%A1%D7%A4%D7%99%D7%9D/%D7%90%D7%A9%D7%9B%D7%A0%D7%96%D7%99-%D7%91%D7%A1%D7%9C%D7%99%D7%97%D7%95%D7%AA-%D7%A9%D7%9C-%D7%A1%D7%A4%D7%A8%D7%93%D7%99%D7%9D/ a different Teshuvah].
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==LeDovid Hashem Ori==
 
#The Minhag Ashkenaz is to recite "LeDovid Hashem Ori" (Psalm 27) once in the morning and once in the evening from [[Rosh Chodesh]] [[Elul]] until and including [[Shemini Aseret]] (and in [[Israel]] until and including [[Hoshana Rabba]]). LeDavid Hashem Ori should be said after [[Shacharit]] (after Shir Shel Yom). On days when there’s [[Mussaf]], LeDavid Hashem Ori is said before Ein Chamocha. On [[Rosh Chodesh]], Barchi Nafshi is said before LeDavid Hashem Ori.<ref>Mishna Brurah 581:2 says that the Minhag Ashkenaz is to say LeDavid Hashem Ori after [[Shacharit]] from [[Rosh Chodesh]] [[Elul]] until and including [[Shemini Aseret]]. LeDavid Hashem Ori should be said after Shir Shel Yom. On days when there’s [[Mussaf]], LeDavid Hashem Ori is said before Ein Chamocha. On [[Rosh Chodesh]], Barchei Nafsei is said before LeDavid Hashem Ori. Sh”t Shevet HaLevi 10:67 and Chazon Ovadyah (pg 24) writes that in [[Israel]] the minhag is to say it until and including [[Hoshana Rabba]]. </ref>
#Ashkenazim say LeDavid Hashem Ori after [[Mariv]], however, some say it after [[mincha]].<ref>Mateh Efraim 551:6 writes that LeDavid Hashem Ori in the evening should be said after [[Mincha]]. This is also the opinion of Mishna Brurah 581:2. However, Elef HaMagen 581:10 holds that LeDavid Hashem Ori should be said after [[Mariv]]. Shalmei Moed (pg 21) in name of Rav Shlomo Zalman writes that one should follow the minhag of the Tzibbur one is praying with. Shalmei Moed (pg 21) says that the minhag Ashkenaz is to say LeDavid Hashem Ori after [[Mariv]] (such is how the Artscroll Siddur has it). </ref>
#For Sephardim it’s also proper to say LeDavid Hashem Ori after [[Shacharit]], especially since some Sephardim recite it all year long.<ref>Chazon Ovadyah pg 24 writes that even for sephardim it’s proper to say LeDavid Hashem after [[Shacharit]]. </ref>
#[[Moroccans]] also recite LeDavid at Shacharit and Arvit from Rosh Chodesh Elul until [[Hoshana Rabba]] including Shabbatot. The custom is to recite it before Kaveh at Shacharit, but it has become common to postpone until after Aleinu. On Shabbat, it is supposed to be recited between Kaveh and Ribbi Chananya, but it is often similarly postponed until after Aleinu. Many have the custom to recite it all year long prior to Arvit.<ref>Magen Avot (Orach Chaim 581:1)</ref>
# There is no kaddish after Shir Shel Yom before Ldovid.<ref>Dibrot Mordechai (Kaddish Yatom 4:11 p. 117), Nitai Gavriel Rosh Hashana 3:8. See [https://www.hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=16002&pgnum=60 Shaar Hakollel ch. 11 fnt. 29] for a similar ruling. However, the Mateh Efraim 581:6 held that one should interrupt them with a kaddish in order to indicate that the Ldovid is not part of the shir shel yom.</ref>


==Blowing Shofar==
==Blowing Shofar==
===Who Has The Custom to Blow===
# Ashkenazim start blowing Shofar from Rosh Chodesh Elul after Shacharit. <Ref> Rama 581:1 writes that one should begin blowing the Shofar from Rosh Chodesh Elul. Mishna Brurah 581:3 writes that some start on the first day of Rosh Chodesh and some start from the second day of Rosh Chodesh. </ref>
# The Ashkenazic minhag is to blow the [[Shofar]] after [[Shacharit]] during [[Elul]]. Some have the practice to start on the first day of [[Rosh Chodesh]] [[Elul]], while others start on the second day of [[Rosh Chodesh]].<ref>The Rosh ([[Rosh Hashana]] 4:14) quotes Pirkei D’Rabi Eliezer Perek 46, which says that Chazal established a practice of blowing the [[shofar]] on [[Rosh Chodesh]] [[Elul]] because a [[shofar]] was blown when Moshe ascended Har Sinai on [[Rosh Chodesh]] [[Elul]]. It continues that the [[shofar]] is blown in order to motivate Bnei Yisrael to do [[teshuva]] and to confuse the Satan. The Rosh adds that this is the basis for the Ashkenazic minhag of blowing [[shofar]] during [[Elul]]. The Rama Orach Chaim 581:1 writes that the minhag is to blow the [[shofar]] during [[Elul]] after [[Shacharit]], and some do so also after [[Maariv]]. Mishna Brurah 581:3 writes that some start on the first day of [[Rosh Chodesh]] and some start from the second day of [[Rosh Chodesh]].</ref>
# The Sephardic custom is not really to blow the Shofar. However, many Sephardic communities have adopted this practice and blow every day of Elul during [[Kaddish]] at the conclusion of Selichot right before Titkabal, as well as during the recitation of the 13 Middot. Nevertheless, one must be careful not to miss reciting the 13 Middot because he is busy blowing the Shofar, and it shouldn't be done if it will wake up sleeping neighbors.<ref>Kaf HaChaim 581:13, Mekor Chaim 209:1, Chazon Ovadia (Yamim Noraim, page 24), [http://www.hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=55401&st=&pgnum=88 Yalkut Yosef (Yamim Noraim, page 46)], Magen Avot ad loc, Laws of Holidays by R' Yonatan Nacson page 367. See [https://ph.yhb.org.il/plus/15-02-01/ Pninei Halacha].</ref>
 
===Number of Blows===
# The common custom is to blow ''tashrat'', tekiya shevarim teruah and tekiya, one time. Some say that one should do tarat, tashat, and tashrat.<reF>Piskei Teshuvot 581:3 cites the Bach 592 who advocated for tarat, tashat, and tashrat but noted that the minhag was just to do tashrat.</ref>
 
===When===
# Ashkenazim specifically do not blow the Shofar on Erev Rosh Hashanah, but Sepharadim do not distinguish.<ref>Rama Orach Chaim 581:3, Magen Avot ad loc.</ref>
# The Shofar should not be blown at night even for practice.<ref>Aruch Hashulchan 581:12, Igrot Moshe 4:21:5, Piskei Teshuvot 581:3. Nitai Gavriel ch. 4 fnt. 16 notes that the Magen Avraham 581:14 implies otherwise.</ref>
 
===Minyan for Blowing Shofar===
# The minhag to blow [[shofar]] during [[Elul]] only applies when davening with a [[minyan]] and not if one is davening by oneself.<ref>Sh"t Tzitz Eliezer 12:48, Piskei Teshuvot 581:3. Tzitz Eliezer writes that there's no minhag to have to blow shofar if someone is davening without a minyan. Nitai Gavriel 4:9 writes that the Lubavitcher Rebbe would blow even when davening by himself.</ref>
#If for some reason a [[minyan]] did not blow the [[Shofar]] after [[Shacharit]] they should blow it after [[Mincha]].<ref>Sh"t Iggerot Moshe 4:21:5, Piskei Teshuvot 581:3, Nitai Gavriel 4:10, Rav Chaim Kanievsky in Alei Siach p. 174</ref>
 
===Standing for Shofar Blowing During Elul===
# The Minhag does not require one to stand during the blowing, but people are accustomed to.<ref>Piskei Teshuvot 581:3</ref>
 
==Hatarat Nedarim==
 
*See the [[Hatarat_Nedarim#Yamim_Noraim|Hatarat Nedarim]] page.
 
==Fasting on Erev [[Rosh HaShana]]==
{{Fasting_on_Erev_Rosh_Hashana}}
 
==Other practices==
 
# Some pious individuals have the minhag of checking their [[Tefillin]] and [[Mezuzot]] during [[Elul]].<ref>Mateh Efraim 581:10 writes that as part of being introspective during [[Elul]], some pious individuals check their [[Tefillin]] and [[Mezuzot]] during [[Elul]]. He concludes that it is a good minhag. This is quoted by the Kitzur S”A 128:3, Chazon Ovadyah (p. 26), and Yalkut Yosef Moadim page 18. Also see Yechave Daat 1:49. It is noteworthy that S”A 39:10 rules that [[Tefillin]] that were established as being kosher do not have to be checked if they are used frequently. Additionally, Shulchan Aruch Y.D. 291:1 rules that [[Mezuzot]] should be checked twice every seven years. see also  [https://itorah.com/lecture/audio/rabbi-eli-mansour/elul-wishing-le-shana-toba-in-written-correspondence-checking-tefillin-and-mezuzot/356/6 Rabbi Eli Mansour's Daily Halacha] and [https://www.yutorah.org/lectures/lecture.cfm/763468/rabbi-aryeh-lebowitz/ten-minute-halacha-checking-tefillin-and-mezuzos/ Rabbi Aryeh Lebowitz ]</ref>
 
{{Getting Married during Elul}}
 
# The custom is that during [[Elul]], one who writes a letter should write a blessing to the recipient that he should be inscribed in the book of life, such as "lishana tova tichatevu vitichatemu." The same is true of email's or the like.<ref>Mateh Efraim 581:9, Eliya Rabba 581:1, Chazon Ovadia Yamim Noraim page 26. [https://itorah.com/lecture/audio/rabbi-eli-mansour/elul-wishing-le-shana-toba-in-written-correspondence-checking-tefillin-and-mezuzot/356/6 Rabbi Eli Mansour's Daily Halacha] adds that one should includes this in emails as well. </ref>
 
==Related Pages==
 
*Article from 5772 on [http://halachipedia.com/documents/5773/1.pdf Minhagim of Elul]
 
==Links==
 
*[http://www.hebrewbooks.org/55401 Yalkut Yosef Hilchot Rosh HaShanah and Yom HaKippurim (Hebrew, 5775)]
*[http://www.yeshiva.co/midrash/shiur.asp?id=932 Laws of Elul and Selichot] by Rabbi Eliezer Melamed
*[http://www.yutorah.org/lectures/lecture.cfm/737363/Rabbi_Chaim_Brovender/Halakhot_of_Elul Halakhot of Elul] by Rabbi Chaim Brovender


==Sources==
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When to start saying Selichot

  1. The Sephardic minhag is to say Selichot from the day after Rosh Chodesh Elul. [1]
  2. There are no Selichot on Shabbat. [2]
  3. The minhag Ashekenaz is to start saying Selichot from the Sunday before Rosh HaShana unless Rosh HaShana falls out on Monday or Tuesday, in which case, Ashkenazim start from two Sundays before Rosh HaShana. [3]

When should Selichot be said?

  1. Preferably, Selichot should be said at the end of the night before Olot HaShachar. [4] However, if one delayed one can say it after Olot HaShachar. [5]However, it is permissible to say Selichot earlier in the night as long one one is sure not to start before Chatzot (halachic midnight). [6]
    1. Some say one may say Selichot according to when Chatzot is in Israel, however majority of halachic authorities disagree. [7]
  2. Those congregations who aren't able to rise early to say Selichot should nonetheless say Selichot in the morning before Shacharit or even in the afternoon before Mincha. [8]
  3. On Erev Rosh HaShana one should make an extra effort to get up early to say Selichot before Olot HaShachar. [9]

Order of Selichot

  1. One must say Brachot HaTorah before saying Selichot because there are a number of pesukim in Selichot. [10]
  2. The Selichot should be said with proper intent (Kavanah), slowly, and with humility and especially during the thirteen attributes (Yud Gimmel Middot). [11]

Individuals who can't wake up for Selichot

  1. A Torah scholar (Talmid Chacham) who aren't able to wake up for Selichot because they are learning in the early hours of the morning and by going to Selichot it will ruin his schedule he should try to go to Selichot during the Aseret Yamei Teshuva (Ten days of Repentance) and some days of Elul. However, if he is up passed Chatzot it's preferable to say some paragraphs of Selichot and Tikkun Chatzot (which takes precedence over Selichot). [12]
  2. Teachers who teach in the morning and getting up early for Selichot would prevent them fro mdoing their job well should only get up for Selichot some days in Elul and during the Aseret Yamei Teshuva. The same is true for hired workers and officials (who would have thier work impacted by rising early). Nonetheless, it's preferable to at least say Selichot to oneself before Shacharit or Mincha. [13]
  3. One should make an effort to say Selichot with fervor and strength and not fall asleep during davening until the very end. This is especcailly the case for someone wearing Tefillin for whom it is forbidden to sleep. It's better not to wake up early for Selichot if it will end up ruining the prayers and and cause one to fall asleep with Tefillin. [14]

Selichot without a minyan

  1. An individual may say the Selichot that don’t include the thirteen attributes, or aren’t written in Aramaic. [15]
  2. If there’s not a minyan when the tzibbur said Ashrei, they should wait to have a minyan to say Kaddish and when they get a minyan they first say 3 pesukim before reciting Kaddish. [16]
  3. If there was a minyan in the beginning and then some people left, they can continue and even say Kaddish after Selichot. [17]

Shliach Tzibbur

  1. Any Jew is fit for being a Shliach Tzibbur as long as the congregation accepts him. [18]
  2. Preferably, the congregation should carefully choose a proper Shliach Tzibbur who is married, thirty years old, and the more he is learned and practices good deeds the better. [19] However, someone who is learned and Yireh Shamayim is preferred over someone who lacks these qualities but fits the requirements of being married and thirty years old. [20]

Talit

  1. The Shliach Tzibbur should wear a Talit during Selichot, however, he shouldn’t make a Bracha if he puts it on at night before Olot HaShachar and to remove himself from controversy he should borrow a Talit from a friend (and not use a public Talit) and have intent that one is not acquiring the Talit it but only using for respect of the congregation. [21]
  2. If one wear Tzitzit earlier than Olot HaShachar (for example, for Selichot) and then after Olot HaShachar (and preferably after MeSheyakir) puts on a Talit, one should only make one Bracha on Tzitzit and Talit even if one puts on Tzitzit a long time before the Talit. [22]
  3. A bachur who doesn’t wear a Talit should be careful to make the Bracha on Tzitzit right after Olot HaShachar after feeling the Tzitzit. [23] However, if someone who slept in the Tzitzit all night, one can not make a Bracha on that pair of tzitzit in the morning (nor should he remove the Tzitzit so as to make a hefsek in order to require a Bracha).[24]

LeDavid Hashem Ori

  1. The Minhag Ashkenaz is to say LeDavid Hashem Ori once in the morning and once in the evening from Rosh Chodesh Elul until and including Shemini Aseret (and in Israel until and including Hoshana Rabba). LeDavid Hashem Ori should be said after Shacharit (after Shir Shel Yom). On days when there’s Mussaf, LeDavid Hashem Ori is said before Ein Chamocha. On Rosh Chodesh, Barchei Nafsei is said before LeDavid Hashem Ori. [25]
  2. For Spehardim it’s also proper to say LeDavid Hashem Ori after Shacharit. [26]
  3. Ashkenazim say LeDavid Hashem Ori after Mariv, however, some say it after mincha. [27]

Blowing Shofar

  1. Ashkenazim start blowing Shofar from Rosh Chodesh Elul after Shacharit. [28]


References

  1. S”A 581:1 writes that one should starting saying Selichot from Rosh Chodesh Elul. Mishna Brurah 581:1 explains that S”A means from Rosh Chodesh and not Rosh Chodesh itself. So writes the Maamer Mordechai (Rav Mordechai Eliyahu) 34:1 as the Sephardic minhag.
  2. Maamer Mordechai (Rav Mordechai Eliyahu) 34:2 writes that there are no Selichot on Shabbat.
  3. Rama 581:1 writes that the minhag Ashekenaz is to start saying Selichot from the Sunday before Rosh HaShana unless Rosh HaShana falls out on Monday or Tuesday, in which case, Ashkenazim start from two Sundays before Rosh HaShana. Mishna Brurah 581:6 explains that the reason that the preparation is no less than four days is because some had the custom to fast for ten days prior to Yom Kippur, however, since one can’t fast on Rosh HaShana’s two days, Shabbat Shuvah, and Erev Yom Kippur, one had to begin fasting four days prior to Rosh HaShana (see there for other reasons).
  4. Mishna Brurah’s introduction to 581, Maamer Mordechai (Rav Mordechai Eliyahu) 34:5 write that preferably, Selichot should be said at the end of the night before Olot HaShachar.
  5. Maamer Mordechai 34:5.
  6. Kaf HaChaim 581:1,2, and Maamer Mordechai (Rav Mordechai Eliyahu) 34:4 hold that one should only say Selichot after Chatzot and if one had a minhag to say it earlier one should change the minhag. Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, pg 2-3) agrees that it forbidden to say Selichot before Chatzot, which he clearly spells out is 12 halachic hours after midday which is 6 halachic hours after sunrise.
  7. Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim beginning) brings two opinions without drawing a conclusion. In the English edition of Yalkut Yosef (vol 14 pg 49 in note 4), the author writes clearly in name of Rav Ovadyah that one may not rely on this leniency and each place must not say Selichot prior to chatzot in that locale. Rav Ovadyah in Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, pg 4) writes clearly that this isn't an acceptable leniency.
  8. Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, pg 6-7)
  9. Maamer Mordechai 34:5
  10. Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, pg 5)
  11. Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, pg 20)
  12. Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, pg 8-10)
  13. Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, pg 10)
  14. Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, pg 10-11)
  15. Mishna Brurah 581:4, Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, pg 11)
  16. Mishna Brurah 581:4 quoting the Eliyah Rabba
  17. Mishna Brurah 581:4
  18. Rama 581:1
  19. Rama 581:1
  20. Mishna Brurah 581:13
  21. Mishna Brurah 581:6 writes that the Levush says that the Shliach Tzibbur should wear a Talit during Selichot but not make a Bracha since there’s a dispute if one can fulfill Tzitzit at night. However, the Taz argues that one shouldn’t enter himself into a dispute (whether to make a Bracha) and so one should rather borrow a Talit from a friend and have Kavana not to acquire it but to use it for respect.
  22. Mishna Brurah 8:24 writes that for sure one should make the Bracha of Talit and cover the Tzitzit rather than make a Bracha on Tzitzit and then on Talit. Even if there will be a long time between putting on the Tzitzit and wearing the Talit, one should still say only one Bracha on the Talit because there are many concerns about making the Bracha on the Tzitzit (it may not be split on the sides a majority, it may not fit the proper Shuir, or one may have slept in the Tzitzit). [this is also brought in Yalkut Yosef (Tzitzit pg 294, Kitzur S”A 16:2).]
  23. Minchat Shlomo 4:1:3 writes that regarding Selichot a bachur who doesn’t wear a Talit should be careful to make the Bracha on Tzitzit right after Olot after feeling the Tzitzit. This is based on the Rama 18:3 who writes that if one put on a Talit Katan before Olot HaShachar, then, at Olot one should feel the strings of the Tzitzit and make a Bracha.
  24. Mishna Brurah 8:42
  25. Mishna Brurah 581:2 says that the Minhag Ashkenaz is to say LeDavid Hashem Ori after Shacharit from Rosh Chodesh Elul until and including Shemini Aseret. LeDavid Hashem Ori should be said after Shir Shel Yom. On days when there’s Mussaf, LeDavid Hashem Ori is said before Ein Chamocha. On Rosh Chodesh, Barchei Nafsei is said before LeDavid Hashem Ori. Sh”t Shevet HaLevi 10:67 and Chazon Ovadyah (pg 24) writes that in Israel the minhag is to say it until and including Hoshana Rabba.
  26. Rav Ovadyah (Chazon Ovadyah pg 24) writes that even for sephardim it’s proper to say LeDavid Hashem after shacharit.
  27. Mateh Efraim 551:6 writes that LeDavid Hashem Ori in the evening should be said after Mincha. So rules Mishna Brurah 581:2. However, Elef HaMagen 581:10 holds that LeDavid Hashem Ori should be said after Mariv. Shalmei Moed (pg 21) in name of Rav Shlomo Zalman writes that one should follow the minhag of the Tzibbur one is praying with. Shalmei Moed (pg 21) says that the minhag Ashkenaz is to say LeDavid Hashem Ori after Mariv (such is how the Artscroll Siddur has it).
  28. Rama 581:1 writes that one should begin blowing the Shofar from Rosh Chodesh Elul. Mishna Brurah 581:3 writes that some start on the first day of Rosh Chodesh and some start from the second day of Rosh Chodesh.