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* Aruch Hashulchan 695:18 adds that the real issue is that when a man gives a woman a gift it leads to a closeness which is inappropriate. Tzemech Yehuda 3:235:4 agrees. Chashukei Chemed Megillah 4a quotes Rav Elyashiv as holding that if there’s no other choice a man could give mishloach manot to a woman if given in a manner that wouldn’t cause to closeness. | * Aruch Hashulchan 695:18 adds that the real issue is that when a man gives a woman a gift it leads to a closeness which is inappropriate. Tzemech Yehuda 3:235:4 agrees. Chashukei Chemed Megillah 4a quotes Rav Elyashiv as holding that if there’s no other choice a man could give mishloach manot to a woman if given in a manner that wouldn’t cause to closeness. | ||
Betzel Chochma 5:51 writes that the Rama was only concerned about kiddushin. He adds that one doesn’t have to be concerned about inappropriate interactions since one is doing a mitzvah of mishloach manot. Additionally, nowadays we are lenient to greet a woman (Rama EH 21:4) and as such we can be lenient in this regard as well. However, he advises not relying on that unless one’s intent is completely pure.</ref> | Betzel Chochma 5:51 writes that the Rama was only concerned about kiddushin. He adds that one doesn’t have to be concerned about inappropriate interactions since one is doing a mitzvah of mishloach manot. Additionally, nowadays we are lenient to greet a woman (Rama EH 21:4) and as such we can be lenient in this regard as well. However, he advises not relying on that unless one’s intent is completely pure.</ref> | ||
==Date Specific Shaylot== | |||
===Paint Night, Wax sculptures=== | |||
#See Drawing a Pasuk [[Respecting_Holy_Books#Writing_Pesukim]] | |||
#See Drawing a Sun, Moon or Stars [[Drawing_or_Sculpting_Forbidden_Images#Sun.2C_Moon.2C_and_Stars]] | |||
#Making a human sculptures [[Drawing_or_Sculpting_Forbidden_Images#Human_Images]] | |||
===Art Museums=== | |||
See [[Kippah#Wearing_a_Kippah_in_a_Place_not_Suitable_for_a_Religious_Jew]] | |||
===Movie=== | |||
#See [[Internet,_TV,_Social_Media]] | |||
===Sports Games=== | |||
#See [[Inappropriate Staring at the Opposite Gender]] | |||
===Ice Skating, Archery=== | |||
#See [[Modesty]] | |||
#See [[Inappropriate Staring at the Opposite Gender]] | |||
#Catching her if she falls see [[Negiah]] | |||
===Arcade, Casino, Bingo=== | |||
#Regarding gambling see [[Minhagim_of_Chanukah#Dreidel]] | |||
===Going to the Zoo=== | |||
#Regarding Brachos when seeing certain animals see [[Bracha for an Unusual Creature]]. | |||
#(Does seeing non-kosher animals cause spiritual damage?) | |||
===Scavenger Hunt in Barnes&Nobles=== | |||
#See [[Deceitful Practices#Window Shopping]] | |||
===Hotel Lobby=== | |||
#See [[Marit Ayin]] | |||
==Sources== | ==Sources== | ||
{{Reflist|2}} | {{Reflist|2}} | ||
[[Category:Marriage]] | [[Category:Marriage]] | ||
