Brachot for a Brit Milah, Bar Mitzvah, and Wedding

From Halachipedia

Brit Milah

  1. The Mohel makes the Bracha "ברוך אתה ה' אלוקינו מלך העולם אשר קידשנו במצותיו וציונו על המילה" (“Baruch Atta Hashem Elokenu Melech HaOlam Asher Kiddeshanu BeMitzvotav VeTzivanu Al HaMilah”) prior to the Milah. [1] This bracha should be said standing. [2]
  2. The father of the baby makes the Bracha "ברוך אתה ה' אלוקינו מלך העולם אשר קידשנו במצותיו וציונו להכניסו בבריתו של אברהם אבינו" (“Baruch Atta Hashem Elokenu Melech HaOlam Asher Kiddeshanu BeMitzvotav VeTzivanu LeHachniso BeBrito Shel Avraham Avinu”) before the Milah [3] This bracha should be said standing. [4]
  3. According to Ashkenazim a Shechiyanu is not said at the Brit Milah except when a father is doing a Brit Milah for a firstborn son who is obligated in Pidyon HaBen, [5] however, according to Sephardim, the bracha is always said. [6]
  4. Next Hagefen is made on wine and then the bracha of Asher Kidesh Yedid MeBeten. [7]

Bar Mitzvah

  1. Upon the Bar Mitzvah of one’s son’s, the father should make the Bracha of Barach ShePotrani MeOnsho Shel Zeh without Shem UMalchut. [8]

References

  1. S"A YD 265:1
  2. Rama YD 265:1
  3. S"A YD 265:1 writes that this Bracha should be made after the cutting of the Orlah before the Periyah, however, Yalkut Yosef (Sova Semachot vol 2 pg 60) writes that the minhag is to make it before the Milah altogether.
  4. Rama YD 265:1
  5. Rama YD 265:7
  6. S"A YD 265:7, Yalkut Yosef (Sova Semachot vol 2 pg 72)
  7. S"A YD 265:1
  8. Rama 225:2, Mishna Brurah 225:8, BeYitzchak Yikra 225:2 in name of Rav Shlomo Zalman, and Piksei Teshuvot 225:5 conclude that one should make the Bracha without a Shem UMalchut.