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Yom Kippur is the Tenth of Tishrei on which it is incumbent upon every Jewish adult to fast<ref>Rambam (Sefer HaMitzvot (Aseh no. 164)</ref> and engage in repentance in order to receive atonement.<ref>Rambam (Teshuva 1:3) writes that the day of Yom Kippur only atones for someone who repents.</ref>
Yom Kippur is on the Tenth of Tishrei.  On Yom Kippur, is incumbent upon every Jewish adult to fast<ref>Rambam (Sefer HaMitzvot (Aseh no. 164)</ref> and engage in repentance in order to receive atonement.<ref>Rambam (Teshuva 1:3) writes that the day of Yom Kippur only atones for someone who repents.</ref>
==Erev Yom Kippur==
==Erev Yom Kippur==
===Eating on Erev Yom Kippur===
===Eating on Erev Yom Kippur===


#It is a mitzvah to eat and drink on [[Erev Yom Kippur]] and one should even lessen one's learning and work in order to eat more on [[Erev Yom Kippur]].<ref>Tur and Shulchan Aruch 604:1 from gemara [[Berachot]] 8b and [[Rosh Hashana]] 9a, Yalkut Yosef (Kitzur Shulchan Aruch 604:1), Maamar Mordechai (Rav Mordechai Eliyahu, English version pg 448, #21) , Chazon Ovadia Yamim Noraim pg. 230, Ketav Sofer 112, Sh"t Rivivot Ephraim 3:410:2<br />
#It is a mitzvah to eat and drink on [[Erev Yom Kippur]] and one should even lessen one's learning and work in order to eat more on [[Erev Yom Kippur]].<ref>Tur and Shulchan Aruch 604:1 (based on gemara [[Berachot]] 8b and [[Rosh Hashana]] 9a), Yalkut Yosef (Kitzur Shulchan Aruch 604:1), Maamar Mordechai (Rav Mordechai Eliyahu, English version pg 448, #21) , Chazon Ovadia Yamim Noraim pg. 230, Ketav Sofer 112, Sh"t Rivivot Ephraim 3:410:2<br />


*Rosh Yoma 8:22 writes that this is in order to prepare for the fasting on Yom Kippur itself. Ritva Rosh Hashana 9a and Tur 604 agree.
*Rosh Yoma 8:22 writes that this is in order to prepare oneself for the fast. Ritva Rosh Hashana 9a and Tur 604 agree.
*Shibbolei Haleket 307 writes that by eating a lot on the 9th, it makes it harder to fast on the 10th.
*Shibbolei Haleket 307 writes that by eating a lot on the 9th, it makes it harder to fast on the 10th.
</ref> It is forbidden to fast on [[Erev Yom Kippur]]. <ref>Rama 604:1, Yalkut Yosef Moadim pg. 74, Beit Yosef 604 </ref>
</ref> It is forbidden to fast on [[Erev Yom Kippur]]. <ref>Rama 604:1, Yalkut Yosef Moadim pg. 74, Beit Yosef 604 </ref>
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#It's forbidden to do any Melacha (lit. work) on Yom Kippur which would be forbidden to do on [[Shabbat]]. <ref>Shulchan Aruch 611:2, Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, pg 282) </ref>
#It's forbidden to do any Melacha (lit. work) on Yom Kippur which would be forbidden to do on [[Shabbat]]. <ref>Shulchan Aruch 611:2, Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, pg 282) </ref>
#[[Muktzeh]] (moving certain objects) is prohibited on Yom Kippur to the same extent that it is on [[Shabbat]]. Even though Muktzeh is slightly more strictly on Yom tov, Yom Kippur it treated like Shabbat for purposes of Muktzeh. <ref>Shulchan Aruch 611:2, Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, pg 282) </ref>
#[[Muktzeh]] (moving certain objects) is prohibited on Yom Kippur to the same extent that it is on [[Shabbat]]. Even though Muktzeh is slightly more strict on Yom tov, Yom Kippur it treated like Shabbat for the purposes of Muktzeh. <ref>Shulchan Aruch 611:2, Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim, pg 282) </ref>
#Carrying is forbidden on Yom Kippur just like Shabbat.<ref>Shulchan Aruch OC 416:4, OC 611:2</ref>
#Carrying is forbidden on Yom Kippur just like Shabbat.<ref>Shulchan Aruch OC 416:4, OC 611:2</ref>
#One should not prepare food on Yom Kippur for after Yom Kippur. <ref>Shulchan Aruch OC 611:2 </ref>
#One should not prepare food on Yom Kippur for after Yom Kippur. <ref>Shulchan Aruch OC 611:2 </ref>
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#It is absolutely forbidden to eat or drink any amount of food on Yom Kippur.<ref>Shulchan Aruch O.C. 616:5 </ref>
#It is absolutely forbidden to eat or drink any amount of food on Yom Kippur.<ref>Shulchan Aruch O.C. 616:5 </ref>
#Everyone is obligated to fast on Yom Kippur including women who are pregnant or nursing (if there is a serious medical concern one should consult one’s Rabbi). <ref>Halichot Shlomo (pg 80), Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim pg 287) </ref>
#Everyone is obligated to fast on Yom Kippur, including women who are pregnant or nursing.  If there is a serious medical concern, one should consult one’s Rabbi. <ref>Halichot Shlomo (pg 80), Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim pg 287) </ref>
#It is permissible to swallow one’s saliva on Yom Kippur. <ref>Mishna Brurah 567:13, Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim pg 310) </ref>
#It is permissible to swallow one’s saliva on Yom Kippur. <ref>Mishna Brurah 567:13, Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim pg 310) </ref>
#Someone for whom fasting Yom Kippur involves a serious health concern absolutely must ask a doctor and Rabbi whether he/she should eat on Yom Kippur. If the doctor (and Rabbi) ascertain that a person shouldn’t fast then that person should not fast even if he thinks he doesn’t need to eat. In such a case, one may not be strict upon oneself to fast as we are commanded to live by the Torah and not die by it (Chas VeShalom) and all the ways of the Torah are kind and pleasant.<ref>Shulchan Aruch O.C. 618:1, Mishna Brurah 618:5, Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim pg 287-9) </ref>
#Someone for whom fasting on Yom Kippur involves a serious health concern, must ask a doctor and Rabbi whether he should eat on Yom Kippur. If the doctor and Rabbi ascertain that a person shouldn’t fast, then he shouldn't fast, even if he thinks that he doesn’t need to eat. In such a case, one may not be strict upon oneself to fast.  We are commanded to live by the Torah and not die by it (Chas VeShalom), and all the ways of the Torah are kind and pleasant.<ref>Shulchan Aruch O.C. 618:1, Mishna Brurah 618:5, Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim pg 287-9) </ref>
#One may not brush one's teeth on Yom Kippur.<ref>The Pitchei Teshuva YD 98:1 quotes a Tzemach Tzedek 47 who writes that it is permitted to taste something non-kosher if it isn't edible and only rabbinic. Nodeh Beyehuda YD 2:52 seems to agree. Accordingly since a person doesn't swallow toothpaste it is similar to tasting food. See article on [https://oukosher.org/blog/consumer-kosher/kashruth-issues-of-toothpaste/#fn118960673450cf4c71832c6 OUKosher.org] and Har Tzvi 95. Regarding Yom Kippur the Mishna Brurah 567:11 clarifies that it is forbidden to taste something and spit it out.</ref>
#One may not brush one's teeth on Yom Kippur.<ref>The Pitchei Teshuva YD 98:1 quotes Tzemach Tzedek 47, who writes that it is permitted to taste something non-kosher if it isn't edible and is only rabbinically forbidden. Nodeh Beyehuda YD 2:52 seems to agree. Accordingly, since a person doesn't swallow toothpaste, it is similar to tasting food. See article on [https://oukosher.org/blog/consumer-kosher/kashruth-issues-of-toothpaste/#fn118960673450cf4c71832c6 OUKosher.org] and Har Tzvi 95. Regarding Yom Kippur the Mishna Brurah 567:11 clarifies that it is forbidden to taste something and spit it out.</ref>


====Those Who Must Eat====
====Those Who Must Eat====


#In cases when one needs to eat on Yom Kippur (see above) one should eat less than a 2/3 of a [[KeBaytzah]] and then wait [[Kedi Achilat Pras]] (according to some this is 9 minutes) before eating again, and for drinks less than a Meloh Lugmav and wait [[Kedi Achilat Pras]] or at least Kedi Shtiyat [[Revi'it]] before drinking again. If the doctors assess that this is insufficient (after consultation with the doctor and Rabbi) one may eat as much as needed.<ref>Shulchan Aruch 618:7-8, Mishna Brurah 618:21. </ref>
#In cases when one needs to eat on Yom Kippur (see above), one should eat less than 2/3 of a [[KeBaytzah]], and then wait [[Kedi Achilat Pras]] (according to some this is 9 minutes) before eating again.  When it comes to drinks, one should drink less than a Meloh Lugmav, and then wait [[Kedi Achilat Pras]], or at least Kedai Shtiyat [[Revi'it|Revi'it,]] before drinking again. If the doctors assess that this is insufficient (after consultation with a doctor and a Rabbi), then one may eat as much as needed.<ref>Shulchan Aruch 618:7-8, Mishna Brurah 618:21. </ref>
#A person who is a Choleh SheEin Bo skana is permissible to take medicine on Yom Kippur if it doesn’t have a good taste. If one needs to have it with liquid one should have mouthwash.<ref>Rav Schachter in [http://www.yutorah.org/lectures/lecture.cfm/763723/Rabbi_Hershel_Schachter/Halachos_of_Yamim_Noraim Halachos of Yamim Noraim] (min 5-7). Rav Chaim Pinchas Sheinberg in Moriah Elul 5759 22:10-12 p. 101 wrote that a Choleh Shein Bo Sakana can take medicines which aren't edible foods on Yom Kippur since it is only a rabbinic restriction to eat inedible food on Yom Kippur. </ref>
#A person who is a Choleh She'Ein Bo Sakana is permitted to take medicine on Yom Kippur, as long as it doesn’t have a good taste. If one needs to take the medicine with liquid, then one should have mouthwash.<ref>Rav Schachter in [http://www.yutorah.org/lectures/lecture.cfm/763723/Rabbi_Hershel_Schachter/Halachos_of_Yamim_Noraim Halachos of Yamim Noraim] (min 5-7). Rav Chaim Pinchas Sheinberg in Moriah Elul 5759 22:10-12 p. 101 writes that a Choleh Shein Bo Sakana can take medicines which aren't edible on Yom Kippur, since it is only a rabbinic restriction to eat inedible food on Yom Kippur. </ref>
#Someone who needs to eat on Yom Kippur (see above) doesn’t need to make [[Kiddish]].<ref>Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim pg 307), Shemirat Shabbat Kehilchata (Intro ch. 3, n. 12) </ref> If he says Birkat Hamazon he should say Yom Kippur in Yaaleh V'yavo.<ref>Tashbetz Katan 568 explains that there is a Yaaleh V'yavo in Birkat Hamazon for Yom Kippur since it is a holiday.</ref>
#Someone who needs to eat on Yom Kippur (see above) doesn’t need to make [[Kiddish]].<ref>Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim pg 307), Shemirat Shabbat Kehilchata (Intro ch. 3, n. 12) </ref> If he says Birkat Hamazon, then he should say Yaaleh V'yavo and mention Yom Kippur.<ref>Tashbetz Katan 568 explains that the reason for saying Yaaleh V'yavo in Birkat Hamazon is because Yom Kippur a holiday.</ref>
#Someone who is suffering from a bad headache may swallow an Aspirin capsule alone.<ref>Rivevot Efraim 6:320. http://www.aish.com/h/hh/yk/guide/Fasting_on_Yom_Kippur.html permits taking any bitter medicine.  </ref>
#Someone who is suffering from a bad headache may swallow an Aspirin capsule alone.<ref>Rivevot Efraim 6:320 (http://www.aish.com/h/hh/yk/guide/Fasting_on_Yom_Kippur.html ) permits taking any bitter medicine.  </ref>
#One who has a throat infection, a fever, and a headache may drink a quantity of water that is "less than the permitted amount" (2 ounces).<ref>Shabbat Shabbaton, 64 </ref>
#One who has a throat infection, a fever, or a headache, may drink a quantity of water that is "less than the permitted amount" (2 ounces).<ref>Shabbat Shabbaton, 64 </ref>
#A person with diarrhea's condition theoretically may be such that he must drink on Yom Kippur. <ref>[[Shabbat]] Shabbaton, 64 </ref> A rabbi and doctor should be consulted.
#A person with a diarrhea condition might theoretically need to eat or drink on Yom Kippur. <ref>[[Shabbat]] Shabbaton, 64 </ref> A rabbi and doctor should be consulted.
#If there is no doctor available to determine the medical situation, one with hepatitis may drink "less than the permitted amount" on Yom Kippur.<ref>Shabbat Shabbaton, 68 </ref>
#If there is no doctor available to determine the medical situation, one with hepatitis may drink "less than the permitted amount" on Yom Kippur.<ref>Shabbat Shabbaton, 68 </ref>
#Some cancer patients are prohibited to fast on Yom Kippur, while others, who are authorized by a doctor, are permitted to fast.<ref>Shabbat Shabbaton, 74 </ref>
#Some cancer patients are prohibited to fast on Yom Kippur, while others, who are authorized by a doctor, are permitted to fast.<ref>Shabbat Shabbaton, 74 </ref>
#Some weak, elderly people are prohibited to fast on Yom Kippur.<ref>Shabbat Shabbaton, 76 </ref>
#Some weak, elderly people are prohibited to fast on Yom Kippur.<ref>Shabbat Shabbaton, 76 </ref>
#A pregnant woman who is suffering from bleeding must drink on Yom Kippur.<ref>Shabbat Shabbaton, 81 </ref>
#A pregnant woman who is suffering from bleeding must drink on Yom Kippur.<ref>Shabbat Shabbaton, 81 </ref>
#If there is no doctor available to determine the medical situation, one with hepatitis may drink "less than the permitted amount" on Yom Kippur.<ref>Shabbat Shabbaton, 68 </ref>
#Children who are below the age of chinuch for fasting may eat cake or candy.<ref>Rav Nissim Karelitz (Chut Shani Yom Kippur p. 167 cited by Dirshu 616:2), Chazon Ovadia (Yamim Noraim p. 338)</ref>
#Some cancer patients are prohibited to fast on Yom Kippur, while others, who are authorized by a doctor, are permitted to fast.<ref>Shabbat Shabbaton, 74 </ref>
#Some weak, elderly people are prohibited to fast on Yom Kippur.<ref>Shabbat Shabbaton, 76 </ref>
 
#Children who didn't reach chinuch to fast may eat cake or candy.<Ref>Rav Nissim Karelitz (Chut Shani Yom Kippur p. 167 cited by Dirshu 616:2), Chazon Ovadia (Yamim Noraim p. 338)</ref>
====Surgery before Yom Kippur====
====Surgery before Yom Kippur====


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===Washing on Yom Kippur===
===Washing on Yom Kippur===


#It’s forbidden to wash oneself in hot or cold water and even to stick one’s finger in water on Yom Kippur is forbidden. <ref>S”A 611:1, 613:1 </ref>
#It’s forbidden to wash oneself in hot or cold water on Yom Kippur.  Even sticking one’s finger in water is forbidden. <ref>Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim  613:1 </ref>
#If one got dirty it’s permitted to wash that area in order to remove dirt from one’s body. <ref>S”A 613:1, Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim pg 311) </ref>
#If one got dirty, then it’s permitted to wash that area in order to remove the dirt. <ref>Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 613:1, Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim pg 311) </ref>
#Upon [[waking up]] for [[Netilat Yadayim]] one should wash one’s hands three times only up to the knuckles. <ref>S”A 613:2 writes that since washing not for pleasure isn’t forbidden it’s permissible to wash one’s hand upon [[waking up]] for [[Netilat Yadayim]]. Mishna Brurah 613:3 writes that one may wash one’s hands three times as usual. Nitei Gavriel 43:2 says that those who have the practice to wash four time may do even on Yom Kippur.  </ref>
#Upon [[waking up]] for [[Netilat Yadayim]], one should wash his hands three times up to the knuckles. <ref>Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 613:2 writes that since washing is only forbidden if done for pleasure, it’s permitted to wash one’s hand upon [[waking up]] for [[Netilat Yadayim]]. Mishna Berurah 613:3 writes that one may wash one’s hands three times as usual. Nitei Gavriel 43:2 says that those who have the practice to wash four times may even do so on Yom Kippur.  </ref>
#If one goes to the bathroom one is allowed to wash one’s hands three times up to the end of the fingers (by the knuckles) <ref>Nitei Gavriel 43:11, Yalkut Yosef (Kitzur S”A 613:2), Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim pg 310) based on S”A 613:3</ref>
#If one goes to the bathroom, then one is allowed to wash one’s hands three times up to the end of the fingers (by the knuckles) <ref>Nitei Gavriel 43:11, Yalkut Yosef (Kitzur Shulchan Aruch 613:2), Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim pg 310) based on Shulchan Aruch 613:3</ref>
#If one walked into a bathroom but didn’t go and didn’t touch a private place one should not wash one’s hand but rather rub them on the wall or something similar unless it bothers his intent in [[prayers]]. However, someone wants to wash one’s hands has what to rely on. <ref>Nitei Gavriel 43:10 </ref>
#If one walked into a bathroom but didn’t relieve himself, nor did he touch a part of his body that is usually covered, then he should not wash his hands, but rather rub them on the wall or something similar, unless it bothers his intent in [[prayers]]. However, someone wants to wash one’s hands has what to rely upon. <ref>Nitei Gavriel 43:10 </ref>
#Cohanim who are going to do [[Birkat Cohanim]] should wash their hands until the end of the hand. <ref>Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim pg 312) </ref>However, some say that that the practice is that a cohen just washes until the knuckles. <ref>Nitei Gavriel 43:8 </ref>
#Cohanim who are going to do [[Birkat Cohanim]] should wash their hands until the end of the hand. <ref>Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim pg 312) </ref>However, some say that that the practice is that a cohen just washes until the knuckles. <ref>Nitei Gavriel 43:8 </ref>
#One may not wash one’s face upon [[waking up]], however, if one’s face became dirty or if there’s guk around one’s eyes one may wet one’s finger and clean in the area which became dirty.<ref>Nitei Gavriel 43:3-4 based on Mishna Brurah 613:9</ref>
#One may not wash one’s face upon [[waking up]].  However, if one’s face became dirty or if there’s guck around one’s eyes, then one may wet one’s finger and clean the area which became dirty.<ref>Nitei Gavriel 43:3-4 based on Mishna Brurah 613:9</ref>
#There’s no obligation to wash one’s hand prior to praying unlike the rest of the year.<ref>Mishna Brurah 613:5 </ref>
#There’s no obligation to wash one’s hands prior to praying,  as opposed to the rest of the year.<ref>Mishna Brurah 613:5 </ref>
#According to Sephardim, a bride for the first thirty days after her wedding may wash her face.<ref>Shulchan Aruch O.C. 613:10, Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim pg 312) </ref> Ashkenazim are strict in this regard nowadays.<ref>Mishna Brurah 613:26, Rav Elyashiv (Haarot to Yoma 77b)</ref>
#According to Sephardim, a bride for the first thirty days after her wedding may wash her face.<ref>Shulchan Aruch O.C. 613:10, Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim pg 312) </ref> Ashkenazim are strict in this regard nowadays.<ref>Mishna Brurah 613:26, Rav Elyashiv (Haarot to Yoma 77b)</ref>


===Anointing on Yom Kippur===
===Anointing on Yom Kippur===


#It is forbidden to anoint even a part of one’s body with oil or ointment even if one is only doing so just to remove a bad smell. <ref>S”A 614:1, Mishna Brurah 614:1, Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim pg 313). Nitei Gavriel 46:5 writes that this prohibition applies equally to women as men and references Minchat [[Chinuch]] 313. </ref>
#It is forbidden to anoint even part of one’s body with oil or ointment.  It is forbidden to do so even if one just wants to remove a bad smell. <ref>Shulchan AruchA 614:1, Mishna Brurah 614:1, Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim pg 313). Nitei Gavriel 46:5 writes that this prohibition applies equally to women as well men, and references Minchat [[Chinuch]] 313. </ref>
#It is forbidden to spray oneself with deodorant on Yom Kippur.<ref>Michzeh Eliyahu 2:52:10:37, Nitei Gavriel 46:2, and [http://www.torah.org/advanced/weekly-halacha/5763/devarim.html Rabbi Doniel Neustadt on Torah.org] write that it is forbidden to use deodorant on Yom Kippur. Michzeh Eliyahu says that stick deodorant is sicha which is forbidden even to remove a bad smell and the spray one is rechisa. Or Yizchak 1:223 agrees. [http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/article.php?p=70599 Rabbi Yissachar Krakowski on yeshivaworld.com] writes that while some are lenient regarding aerosol deodorant one should avoid it by applying a thick layer on [[Erev Yom Kippur]]. Rav Elyashiv and Rav Nissim Karelitz (cited by Dirshu 613:1) hold that spray deodorant is forbidden on Yom Kippur. Rav Shlomo Aviner (Piskei Shlomo v. 1 p. 320) is quoted as permitting liquid deodorant on Yom Kippur. (Seemingly his reason is that he compares it to rechisa to remove a bad smell and not like sicha.)</ref>
#It is forbidden to spray oneself with deodorant on Yom Kippur.<ref>Michzeh Eliyahu 2:52:10:37, Nitei Gavriel 46:2, and [http://www.torah.org/advanced/weekly-halacha/5763/devarim.html Rabbi Doniel Neustadt on Torah.org] write that it is forbidden to use deodorant on Yom Kippur. Michzeh Eliyahu says that stick deodorant is sicha which is forbidden even to remove a bad smell, and the spray one is rechisa. Or Yizchak 1:223 agrees. [http://www.theyeshivaworld.com/article.php?p=70599 Rabbi Yissachar Krakowski on yeshivaworld.com] writes that while some are lenient regarding aerosol deodorant, one should avoid it by applying a thick layer on [[Erev Yom Kippur]]. Rav Elyashiv and Rav Nissim Karelitz (cited by Dirshu 613:1) hold that spray deodorant is forbidden on Yom Kippur. Rav Shlomo Aviner (Piskei Shlomo v. 1 p. 320) is quoted as permitting liquid deodorant on Yom Kippur. (Seemingly his reason is that he compares it to rechisa to remove a bad smell and not like sicha.)</ref>
#Using liquid soap isn't considered anointing but is rather similar to washing. It is permitted to use down liquid soap if one's hands are dirty.<ref>Peninei Halacha (Yamim Noraim p. 219 fnt. 6) allows using liquid hand soap if one's hands are dirty such as after changing a diaper.
#Using liquid soap isn't considered anointing, but is rather classified as washing. It is therefore permitted to use down liquid soap if one's hands are dirty.<ref>Peninei Halacha (Yamim Noraim p. 219 fnt. 6) allows using liquid hand soap if one's hands are dirty, such as after changing a diaper.
Or Letzion 4:12:5 p. 101 explains that מי סבון is very thin and is therefore more similar to washing than anointing.</ref>
Or Letzion 4:12:5 p. 101 explains that מי סבון is very thin and is therefore more similar to washing than anointing.</ref>


===Wearing leather shoes===
===Wearing leather shoes===
#It’s forbidden to wear leather shoes on Yom Kippur.<ref>Shulchan Aruch O.C. 614:2, Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim pg 313) </ref> Even if the leather of the shoe is on the outside of the shoe it is still forbidden to wear on Yom Kippur.<ref>Chazon Ovadia (Yamim Noraim p. 314) unlike Bet Dovid</ref>
#It’s forbidden to wear leather shoes on Yom Kippur.<ref>Shulchan Aruch O.C. 614:2, Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim pg 313) </ref> Even if the leather is on the outside of the shoe, it is still forbidden to wear on Yom Kippur.<ref>Chazon Ovadia (Yamim Noraim p. 314) unlike Bet Dovid</ref>
#According to some poskim, the beracha "Sheasa Li Kol Tzorki" should not be recited on [[Yom Kippur]] and [[Tisha BeAv]].<ref>Ben Ish Hai, Vayeshev, 9; Kaf Hachaim 46:17 </ref> Others disagree. <ref>Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim pg 320) </ref>
#According to some poskim, the beracha "Sheasa Li Kol Tzorki" should not be recited on [[Yom Kippur]] and [[Tisha BeAv]].<ref>Ben Ish Hai, Vayeshev, 9; Kaf Hachaim 46:17 </ref> Others disagree. <ref>Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim pg 320) </ref>
#Some say that one shouldn't wear shoes which have a raised heel so that one feels the roughness of the ground.<ref>[http://www.yutorah.org/lectures/lecture.cfm/782158/Rabbi_Hershel_Schachter/Inyonei_Yom_Hakippurim_#2 Rav Hershel Schachter in a shiur on Inyonei Yom Kippur (min 47-8)] quotes Rav Soloveitchik as saying that one shouldn't wear shoes which have raised heels so that one feels the roughness of the ground. He based this on the Rambam Shivitat Asor 3:7 who writes that one may wear cloth (non-leather) shoes because one feels the roughness of the ground, implying that non-leather shoes are only permitted if one still feels the roughness of the ground. This is also recorded in Nefesh HaRav (p. 110).</ref>
#Some say that one shouldn't wear shoes which have a raised heel in order to feel the roughness of the ground.<ref>[http://www.yutorah.org/lectures/lecture.cfm/782158/Rabbi_Hershel_Schachter/Inyonei_Yom_Hakippurim_#2 Rav Hershel Schachter in a shiur on Inyonei Yom Kippur (min 47-8)] quotes Rav Soloveitchik as saying that one shouldn't wear shoes which have raised heels so that one feels the roughness of the ground. He based this on the Rambam Shivitat Asor 3:7 who writes that one may wear cloth (non-leather) shoes because one feels the roughness of the ground, implying that non-leather shoes are only permitted if one still feels the roughness of the ground. This is also recorded in Nefesh HaRav (p. 110).</ref>
#Even though it is permissible for a child to wear leather shoes on Yom Kippur it is better to get them non-leather shoes.<ref>Shulchan Aruch 616:1 writes that children may not wear non-leather shoes. However, the poskim including Chazon Ovadia (Yamim Noraim p. 340) and Minchat Shlomo 2:60:21 write that today since the children don't go around barefoot it is permitted but better to avoid.</ref>
#Even though it's permissible for a child to wear leather shoes on Yom Kippur, it's better to get them non-leather shoes.<ref>Shulchan Aruch 616:1 writes that children may not wear leather shoes. However, the poskim including Chazon Ovadia (Yamim Noraim p. 340) and Minchat Shlomo 2:60:21 write that today since the children don't go around barefoot it is permitted but better to avoid.</ref>


===Interaction between Husband and Wife===
===Interaction between Husband and Wife===


#It is forbidden for a husband to sleep with his wife on Yom Kippur and furthermore, it is forbidden for them to sleep in the same bed.<ref>Shulchan Aruch 615:1, Yalkut Yosef 615:1</ref>
#It is forbidden for a husband to sleep with his wife on Yom Kippur.  Furthermore, it is forbidden for them to sleep in the same bed.<ref>Shulchan Aruch 615:1, Yalkut Yosef 615:1</ref>
#The minhag is that a man and wife may not even touch on Yom Kippur.<ref>Shulchan Aruch 615:1, Yalkut Yosef 615:1</ref>
#The minhag is that a man may not touch his wife on Yom Kippur.<ref>Shulchan Aruch 615:1, Yalkut Yosef 615:1</ref>
#It is forbidden for a man and wife to hug or kiss on Yom Kippur.<ref>Yalkut Yosef 615:1</ref>
#It is forbidden for a man and wife to hug or kiss on Yom Kippur.<ref>Yalkut Yosef 615:1.  Mishnah Berurah 615-1 adds that one should be strict to keep all of the harchakot enumerated in Yoreh Deah 195</ref>
===Wearing Jewelry===
===Wearing Jewelry===
#On Yom Kippur, the minhag is that women don't wear special jewelry that they would wear on Shabbat or Yom Tov.<ref>Mishna Brurah 610:4</ref>
#On Yom Kippur, the minhag is that women don't wear special jewelry that they would typically wear on Shabbat or Yom Tov.<ref>Mishna Brurah 610:4</ref>


==The Conclusion of Yom Kippur==
==The Conclusion of Yom Kippur==
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===Havdalah===
===Havdalah===


#For sephardim, there is no [[Besamim]] bracha in the [[Havdalah]] even if Yom Kippur falls out on Motzei [[Shabbat]].<ref>Shulchan Aruch O.C. 624:3, Rambam [[Shabbat]] 29:28, Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim pg 384) </ref> Nevertheless, it is proper that after drinking from the wine of [[havdala]] that the beracha on [[besamim]] should be said and then smell the [[besamim]]. <ref>Sh"t Yabia Omer 10: footnotes to Rav Pealim 3:38 </ref>
#For sephardim, there is no [[Besamim]] bracha in the [[Havdalah]], even if Yom Kippur falls out on Motzei [[Shabbat]].<ref>Shulchan Aruch O.C. 624:3, Rambam [[Shabbat]] 29:28, Chazon Ovadyah (Yamim Noraim pg 384) </ref> Nevertheless, it is proper that after drinking from the wine of [[havdala]] that the beracha on [[besamim]] should be said and then smell the [[besamim]]. <ref>Sh"t Yabia Omer 10: footnotes to Rav Pealim 3:38 </ref>
#For [[havdala]] after Yom Kippur only a candle that was lit from before Yom kippur should be used, and not one that is lit after Yom kippur specifically for [[havdala]]. If there is no candle that was lit from before, the beracha should not be recited. <ref>Shulchan Aruch OC 624:4, Yalkut Yosef Moadim pg. 116, Chazon Ovadia Yamim Noraim pg. 378 </ref> However, if Motzaei Yom Kippur falls out on Motzaei [[Shabbat]], you can still recite the beracha on a candle that was lit that night if you don't have one lit from before Yom Kippur. <ref>Yalkut Yosef Moadim pg. 116, Chazon Ovadia Yamim Noraim pg. 378 </ref> But the minhag is to be strict and use a candle lit from before Yom Kippur.<ref>Mishna Brurah 624:7</ref>
#For [[havdala]] after Yom Kippur only a candle that was lit from before Yom kippur should be used, and not one that is lit after Yom kippur specifically for [[havdala]]. If there is no candle that was lit from before, the beracha should not be recited. <ref>Shulchan Aruch OC 624:4, Yalkut Yosef Moadim pg. 116, Chazon Ovadia Yamim Noraim pg. 378 </ref> However, if Motzaei Yom Kippur falls out on Motzaei [[Shabbat]], you can still recite the beracha on a candle that was lit that night if you don't have one lit from before Yom Kippur. <ref>Yalkut Yosef Moadim pg. 116, Chazon Ovadia Yamim Noraim pg. 378 </ref> But the minhag is to be strict and use a candle lit from before Yom Kippur.<ref>Mishna Brurah 624:7</ref>
#One should not eat before [[Havdala]]. However, if someone is very thirsty, they may drink some water.<ref>Yalkut Yosef Moadim pg. 116, Chazon Ovadia Yamim Noraim pg. 387, Shoel U'Meishiv 1:129 </ref>
#One should not eat before [[Havdala]]. However, if someone is very thirsty, they may drink some water.<ref>Yalkut Yosef Moadim pg. 116, Chazon Ovadia Yamim Noraim pg. 387, Shoel U'Meishiv 1:129 </ref>
# It is permitted to make havdalah over a yahrzeit candle or a candle with a single wick on Motzei Yom Kippur, though some poskim hold that one should specifically use a havdalah candle with two wicks, lit from a candle that was burning on Yom Kippur.<Ref>Dirshu 624:11 quotes Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach (Shulchan Shlomo 298:3:1) that on motzei yom kippur it is unnecessary to use a torch since the main reason for this lighting is because until that point lighting a fire was forbidden. However, they also cite that Eshel Avraham 624:5 and Rav Debilisky argue that a torch should be used just like is done on Motzei Shabbat.</ref>
# It is permitted to make havdalah over a yahrzeit candle or a candle with a single wick on Motzei Yom Kippur, though some poskim hold that one should specifically use a havdalah candle with two wicks, lit from a candle that was burning on Yom Kippur.<Ref>Dirshu 624:11 quotes Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach (Shulchan Shlomo 298:3:1) that on motzei yom kippur it is unnecessary to use a torch since the main reason for this lighting is because until that point lighting a fire was forbidden. However, they also cite that Eshel Avraham 624:5 and Rav Debilisky argue that a torch should be used just like is done on Motzei Shabbat.</ref>